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Old 08-30-2023, 12:32 AM   #5 (permalink)
Apia resurrected
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Originally Posted by Hera Again View Post
Welcome back, Bianca! I've been on so many apps for so long. I finally quit So maybe it wasn't for me. But here's what I learned: it doesn't matter what you say b/c most men don't even read your profile (or care about it), they just look at your pic. My opening line was to ask their favorite movie. It gives you something to discuss. Being clever or jokey doesnt work too well.
I went a different way, but also, it wasn’t an app. I wrote a bio and wrote in it what I want and what I don’t want. For example, at that time I wanted a real relationship. I wrote that if the guy wants an affair, or something casual or no commitment, it’s cool for him, but not what I want and he shouldn’t bother with me.

I wanted the guys who wanted, to quote the Barbie movie
“long-term long-distance low-commitment casual girlfriend“ to just keep it moving.

And I remember, when I read the bio of Mr Apia, I thought it’s a great fit.

So yey for profiles!
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