Keith and The Girl Forums - 37: Handle With Care

Re: Blow Jobs

I agree with what Brolo said and wanted to add some more details.

1. Ask him to trim the pubes and make sure he shows well before you give him a blow job. Getting one of those pubes stuck on your tongue or the back of the throat is a mood killer. And go ahead and make sure you are trimmed as well in case he wants to return the favor.

2. Lubrication is important. I'd recommend giving him a handjob first so to get him good and hard because it is a little offputting to give a blow job to a semi flaccid penis. You don't need to drool on it or spit on it, but make sure that you are hydrated enough to be able to produce enough salvia throughout.

3. I would practice on a Popsicle first. Focus on how you suck on it, the pressure, and no teeth whatsoever. notice how you slightly increase the suction as it starts to melt more. Feel free to use your tongue as well. Don't suck too hard. If you start sucking on it like you suck on a straw that has a clog in it, you are probably sucking too hard.

4. Go ahead and watch some porn but remember:
- Not all guys want to be spit on
- not all guys need to be deepthroated/hear you gag on their cock

5. In general the head of the penis is the most sensitive, swirl your tongue around, get the underside.

6. Ask for feedback when you are done. Remember that when he says what he usually likes or gives suggestions, that does NOT mean that he hated it nor does he think you are the worst in the world. And if he does, and acts like a complete asshole, then find yourself a new man who is more sensitive and willing to work with you. It doesn't sound like he is a dick since he is requesting one and not demanding one.

Also, ask him not to cum in your mouth the first time unless it is something you really want to to try. It might be too much for your first time, so make sure he knows. Also, don't be alarmed if he puts his hands on your head and tries to guide you a little bit, I've found that sometimes guys do that without even realizing that they are doing it. Sometimes it is just so good they don't want your head to move because they want Mr. happy to keep enjoying the party.