1113: Sexpert

[TheGrundle]

Originally Posted by John Galt

Really, this should be the New Orleans fight song:

That is one of them. I wouldn't say we have one fight song. There are lots of songs that have been made over the years. Everytime the Saints start doing well, local musicians (we have a large musician population) come up with more.

[Bucho]

I also find Rev Jen and Faceboy very delightful and hilarious guests, Rev Jen especially was coming out with a lot of funny lines and ideas this time.

What Keith said about how good it is to be able to have a laugh with your girl when you're fucking is 100% on the money. To be able to get to the point where that happens, where you're so comfortable with yourselves and each other that your defences are totally down, there's zero performance happening, just pure enjoyment and coupling, that's the most beautiful and most intimate fucking there is. And he's dead right that you never seem to see it or hear about it either, or at least I'd never read in books or mags or seen movies or tv or heard anyone else bring it up until Keith did on this show. I knew it must happen for other people, but nobody ever brought it up in front of me before.

And it goes absolutely perfectly with Chemda's thing that it's not that one or the other in a couple who is necessarily a great lover but a good couple combine in a way that makes the loving better. Obviously there are people with more experience and clues and desire than others but in general the best sex happens when two people make each other good lovers. It's the best.

They know their shit these two, they should write a book or something.

[bluecrucial]

Originally Posted by Sajizzle

Is Keith pronouncing it Brett "Farr"?

I believe it's Brett Fear. As in bear or beer.

[Junkenstein]

It's a french sounding name. His purely american tongue refuses to pronounce it.

I dont think it has to do with the diceylvanian accent.

[Eightball]

Just as an idea, perhaps you two could do an entire show dedicated to sex talk. Have people prep up some questions and see where it goes. RevJen and Faceboy were funny, but Chemda has some really good ideas on relationships...

Way to go Chemda...

add another book buyer...

Keep happy.

[Blitzgal]

How long ago did Rev Jen go to the police about the Craigslist thing? There have been multiple cases in which a woman was actually raped after an asshole ex-boyfriend posted a "rape fantasy" ad up on Craigslist. I'm glad she has a security locked building. Be safe, girl.

But if it's been awhile maybe she might want to go back to the police about this. Since the Craiglist murder and these other cases they should be a little more savvy about internet based crimes. One would hope.

[Dragon9382]

Here comes the Rain....again

[Junkenstein]

Originally Posted by Blitzgal

How long ago did Rev Jen go to the police about the Craigslist thing? There have been multiple cases in which a woman was actually raped after an asshole ex-boyfriend posted a "rape fantasy" ad up on Craigslist. I'm glad she has a security locked building. Be safe, girl.

You know, for what i've learned about the rev by hearing her on the show, reading her books and watching her web videos, i think she can handle herslef very well.

I am sure she can kick some serious butt.

Also, is there anyone in NY that HASNT a security locked building?

[Andrea's toothbrush]

Keith made a couple of jokes about how, if Kanye appeared on the Haiti telethon, he'd say Bush still hates black folks and proclaim that the Tsunami a couple of years ago was a bigger, better disaster than this.

Keith is always going on about how terrible a comedian Jay Leno is, but those jokes are the type of hackneyed shit that he's always dissing Jay Leno for doing.

Those jokes were so bad that is debatable that Jay would even use them, and Conan sure as hell wouldn't. Keith does jokes like this almost every episode. And no one laughs, except a forced laugh from Chemda. My point? Keith is a hypocrite to criticize Jay Leno when he relies on the same easy one liners most of the time.

Stop Keith, just stop. You need to take Jesse's advice and "work out" your comedy in clubs at least once a month. Chemda once asked rhetorically "If Jesse thinks that Keith isn't a comedian because he does on average one show a year, then how are WE qualified to be talk show hosts."

The answer? Because you do it every damn day, you got good at hosting a show. Even Chemda won't listen to your first shows without cringing, because you got better with time. Same thing with your comedy. You need to do it more often, without the crutch of Chemda's anecdotes and funny guests to rely on.

[beerchick]

For the guy who hates the sex with his wife... Another resource for how to handle your situation could be Dan Savage from the Savage Love sex column. He also has a podcast where you can call and record a question that he will answer on the show. He usually has pretty great advise - Savage Love Podcast | Dan Savage, America's only advice columnist, answers your sex questions on the Internets. To record a question for Dan to be answered in a later podcast, call 206-201-2720. The Stranger | Seattle's Only Newspaper He deals with a lot of really difficult questions like yours and may be of help.