1201: Explain Yourself

[Garsondee]

Done lots more listening and reading on the forums - listening to The Morning After right now. Hopefully that'll have some more answers, but I'd just like to add my massively delayed well wishes to both Keith and Chemda and hope that you both have fun going your seperate ways!

[alldogship]

Sometimes there is a context to the polls like show 1198. When I don't know what it is about, confused, don't have a clear answer or it's not about me then I don't vote.

It's not "Rate your pain from 1 to 10". It's "Yes, No or Don't vote because I'm too dumb".

[robjus]

Fuck yeah, Ben Lerman! Enough to make this mostly straight man consider going gay. Love the new song. Will be humming it with a smile as I gear up for my own divorce, but doubt the future ex-wife will find it as enjoyable.

[Blitzgal]

Originally Posted by invader

On asking a girl, "why not?". That is exactly the reason why not.

Yeah, my guess is that it's the creepy intensity that girls are responding negatively to and not what this guy looks like. Even his friend openly told him how hostile he is about this whole situation.

[scottperezfox]

Keith, I'm going with my teammates to see the rugby this weekend. We'll be out in force, so look for the New York Rugby Club shirts and stuff.

[elastoplastic]

Originally Posted by Garsondee

Done lots more listening and reading on the forums - listening to The Morning After right now. Hopefully that'll have some more answers, but I'd just like to add my massively delayed well wishes to both Keith and Chemda and hope that you both have fun going your seperate ways!

The show you want is 1190: "A whole new world". Although the Morning after will address it as well. No worries... The show must go on

[elastoplastic]

Originally Posted by scottperezfox

Keith, I'm going with my teammates to see the rugby this weekend. We'll be out in force, so look for the New York Rugby Club shirts and stuff.

Hmm, never been with a woman. Plays rugby ( sport where you spend a lot of time with your hands between other mens legs and tackling grown men).
Dude.
It's OK.
We're a supportive community.
That closet door is easy to open.
Come on out...

[elastoplastic]

Originally Posted by Blitzgal

Yeah, my guess is that it's the creepy intensity that girls are responding negatively to and not what this guy looks like. Even his friend openly told him how hostile he is about this whole situation.

Another issue is that girls talk. If he's running in even close to the same circles looking for girls they will already know that he's kind of desperate. And if he asks this, it will get around, especially with his combative attitude.

I went through a period of self-doubt where I wanted to know why girls didn't like me. The best answer I can give is that a woman isn't going to just logically say, "hmm, might as well waste some time on you", if there's no connection or chemistry. Work on yourself. Develop some of you're own self-esteem. Realize that life will go on even if you don't have a woman. For some strange reason women find non-desperate disinterestedness sexy . As chemda says, lower your standards and date a bunch of people you don't care about. It will give you good practice. And if you're just horny, this forum is FULL of good porn references. Start doing things that are interactive just for social interactions sake.

Good Luck.

[punk'n]

DAMN YOU BEN LERMAN AND YOUR UKELELE! I'm gonna have that catchy fuckin song in my head all day. But he's one of my faves so I forgive. And I LOVE the Hot D8 campaign. What a great idea!

[Dean from Australia]

At 1:02 I pee'd my pants!