1201: Explain Yourself

[Blitzgal]

Originally Posted by elastoplastic

As chemda says, lower your standards and date a bunch of people you don't care about. It will give you good practice.

Also, I'd like to know what girls he's asking out. I know several guys who specifically target a very narrow field of girls (as in, ridiculously hot/high maintenance ones) and then complain that they can't get a date, or that "all women" are shallow and materialistic.

Keith made a simple yet very important point that I honestly believe a lot of guys need to figure out. A woman isn't required to want YOU, and she also doesn't need a reason. She will or she won't. And if a particular one doesn't, then move the fuck on.

[ThePinkSuperhero]

Originally Posted by Blitzgal

Keith made a simple yet very important point that I honestly believe a lot of guys need to figure out. A woman isn't required to want YOU, and she also doesn't need a reason. She will or she won't. And if a particular one doesn't, then move the fuck on.

So true!

[plazaflores]

Canada, Uruguay, France A, USA, Russia and England Saxons are definitely not amongst the best teams in the world, not even close. But rugby is awesome, you'll love it!

[Bucho]

Originally Posted by ThePinkSuperhero

And I love Ben's song! Yay! D-I-V-O-R-C-E-PARTY!

Hell yes, it's my second favourite of his after My Name Is Ben Lerman. He really should record D-I-V-O-R-C-E PARTY with a full band and Ramones/Black Flag the shit out of it. Or maybe even Miley Cyrus it.

Originally Posted by Dean from Australia

At 1:02 I pee'd my pants!

I'm reporting you for apostrophe abuse. "Author".

But congratulations anyway dude, and especially props for dropping KATG in the book.

[standardman]

Ben Lerman, always great. Got a smile on my face.

[starscream]

Did Ben go over the group vocals of "Party" beforehand? Or could everyone just not help themselves? I could barely stop myself from joining in, so it certainly could be the latter. Amazing.

[rodimusprime]

another great show. Lerman is that dude.

Also I don't know why anyone would ask someone why they "didn't" want to go out with them. Like you need your soul crushed more than the initial soul crushing rejection they just laid on you?

[Diglass]

Originally Posted by Blitzgal

Keith made a simple yet very important point that I honestly believe a lot of guys need to figure out. A woman isn't required to want YOU, and she also doesn't need a reason. She will or she won't. And if a particular one doesn't, then move the fuck on.

Exactly, it took me until 22 to realize that. People just are attracted to you or not, you can't force it. Also, if you do get a nice lady, don't be that idiot who pretends to be what you think the girl wants you to be, when you're back to the real you in 3-6 months, you'll be hurt even more and back where you started.

[Lanfear]

I randomly picked this show to relistened to while waiting for my flight and I'm so happy I did: Ben Lerman & Dr Sleep drama are such good times