1359: Shit Happens

[Rufio]

didn't keith and chemda have sex next to bobby mitchell and his wife?

[doctorsleep]

What was with the attitude in Chemda's voice when keith mentioned that maybe JUST MAYBE he wouldn't be cool with Kat making out with another girl.

On top of that Chemda just seems to have this attude (at least this is the vibe I get from the show) that comes off as totally anti-monogomyj

Dear chemda,

Not everyone wants everyone to fuck everyone.

Jesus, you bi's sometimes, people wonder why I have so many issues with them.

[Rufio]

Originally Posted by doctorsleep

What was with the attitude in Chemda's voice when keith mentioned that maybe JUST MAYBE he wouldn't be cool with Kat making out with another girl.

On top of that Chemda just seems to have this attude (at least this is the vibe I get from the show) that comes off as totally anti-monogomyj

Dear chemda,

Not everyone wants everyone to fuck everyone.

Jesus, you bi's sometimes, people wonder why I have so many issues with them.

you're sooooo gonna get hated on for this post

[doctorsleep]

Originally Posted by Rufio

you're sooooo gonna get hated on for this post

Oh yeah, I know,

I really don't mean for my post to be one of an insulting nature, but more of a frustrated nature, I mean its like really you can't understand why a guy wouldn't want to see his girl make out with another girl, that's such an odd concept too you.

Don't get me wrong though, I'm sure its total coincidence that Chemda is bi in addition to having these attitudes, things don't mean things and there is no connection between those two facts.

[Junkenstein]

i think her "attitude" which i didnt really noticed was more about keith's change of mind in respect to when he was ok while being with her. seemed like she didnt get why, more than being against it.

plus, didnt she say she is in an exclusive relationship with a woman who she has dated exclusively? doesnt that mean sh's gay, rather than bi?

doc, are you sure you aint seeing a bisexual conspiracy everywhere cause of your own issues. let's be clear i dont hate you or love you, say what you like, i motly think you euither overread things or youre trying to stir the same pot again.

[Cretaceous Bob]

Originally Posted by Junkenstein

i think her "attitude" which i didnt really noticed was more about keith's change of mind in respect to when he was ok while being with her. seemed like she didnt get why, more than being against it.

That's exactly what it was.

I don't even have words for how insane this dude is.

[HeyAnne]

Originally Posted by Junkenstein

i think that if your marriage works, then your happy.

my main problem with marriage is that the costs of failure are so huge that lots of people force stay together even if they're unhappy.

divorce is not that simple and a frustrating marriage is horror. id marry, of course, if it seems right. but as much as id love to enlieve that eternal love exists, i havent seen it yet.

this.

Even though I am married to my 2nd husband and things are not so good right now and who knows where it will end up eventually - I still believe in love.

I believe forever love is very possible - -you just have to nurture it forever too. I was going to say 'work' on it but that makes it seem like a job you dont want to do.

I say now that if I ever found myself to be single again, I would never get married again and never live with someone else either. That doesnt mean that I dont want to be madly in love, I just need my own space. I dont want to muck something up with regular old life like shared bills and shared
bathrooms.


Best of Luck to Jessie -- I love the Sunset Beach photo -- one of the most beautiful places in NJ.

[sonami3]

Originally Posted by Junkenstein

oh right cause women never remarry. do you ladies live in Islam? What are you talking about? you're really exxagerating stuff.

I totally agree, women don't just cry in grief for years over their loss of her husband. I mean yeah she feels sad but she knows that life is too short, she must move on, and that most of all he (her late husband) would have wanted her to move on and live happily if he really loved her.

Bottom line - women move on and get remarried. It's just how it is nowadays.

[sugarrush111]

Nothing lasts forever. Marriages nowadays are short-lived. It's even surprising now to learn of young couples still staying together for over 10 years.

[curtz]

Originally Posted by Blitzgal

Not exactly. I'm cynical because even if you find that perfect person who fits with you and the relationship is good, that still doesn't mean that forever actually IS forever. I openly admit that I'm a mess. Yes, I have abandonment issues. It is not a healthy outlook.

And Junk, my mother did remarry. She's been with the same guy for over ten years, and their relationship is great. So of course logically I know that you can find someone else. I have problems placing my trust in other people. It really has little to do with the other person. It's my screwed up head.

I have similar things happened to my family. Even I saw some uncles and aunties got divorces as well. I'm skeptic to make happy ever after family later.