2254: Reinventing the Wheel
 

with Chrissie Mayr – Foot modeling; Craigslist massage ads; KATG in Albuquerque; teachers vs. students; Sicario review; 3 new Bill Cosby victims; Chrissie’s ex Pat Dixon and new love Frank Pellegrino; Chet Haze out of rehab, anti-N-word

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Chrissie Mayr
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Great, great episode guys and I really enjoyed listening to Chrissie.

One thing that scared me though was at minute 43:16 Chemda posed the question "he didn't beat you?"

Chrissie kinda dodged it. I really hope that this was the case - that he didn't beat her.

If he did beat her, I think a lynching is in order.

I'm listening to Pat's bit now - mother fuck, that I even had any doubt.

Jesus Wept.

Allegorically or Historically wept?

I don't get the sociopath vibe....I get the narcissist vibe from him...but than again I just came to the realization that my dad is a narcissist and stop talking to him....you think it's fucked up to date one....try growing up thinking this behavior is normal...having nothing else to compare it too!

But that's my pain...this is hers and i don't want to invalidate it, Cuz it's so real and painful!

https://www.reddit.com/r/RaisedByNarcissists

here's a group you might be interested in reading through. both my parents are great, but i myself probably shouldn't have kids. this is a helpful reminder why when i get the baby fevers.

Shame on me for not writing Pat off when hearing him first spout that ridiculous bullshit about forcing Chrissy to get rid of family and friends. That is so abusive and fucked up. Fuck him.


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I'm with Keith, when my friends tell me "I feel so bad cuz I hooked up with this girl at a party even thought I'm dating Kristin" I'm like "you fucked some girl at a party?!?!" and they're all upset "Nooo! We just kinda kissed a little" I roll my eyes so hard. Hook up should only mean things were hooked into other things, fingers or tongues or penises into holes

Chet haze really needs to look into getting Keith as his full time hype man.

This felt like some 6th sense go back and relisten to everything now that the plot twist has been revealed shit. I remember nodding along with Pat 2 years ago. Now it feels so painfully obvious what a psychopath he is.

Pat Dixon seems to be a Domestic Violence Perpetrator
 

I am listening to the episode where you had Pat Dixon's ex girlfriend on and I am going BANANAS. The discussion that you had with Chrissie Mayr was so textbook domestic violence and I am an hour into it and I HAD TO stop because it was frustrating for me. It sounds as if Pat didn't physically hit Chrissie (or at least she didn't choose to share that information on air) but he engaged in EVERY OTHER type of domestic violence possible. He controlled her schedule, who she could talk to, and by expecting her to stay up all night what job she had. He tricked her into thinking that it was all her fault and that she was the one who was the problem. Hearing that they engaged in couple's therapy got me so ANGRY because ANY therapist worth their salt should be able to see how this is a domestic violence situation.
I know this seems very random and slanderous to say all this. It only seems that way based on the anecdotes that Chrissie shared and Pat's own words from the show he was previously on. I'm in a doctoral program in psychology and run groups for domestic violence perpetrators that they have to attend as part of their parole/probation. The goal with the groups is to get them to change the way they look at the world/their relationships so they don't abuse another partner. If I stuck Pat into one of those groups he would agree with EVERY SINGLE HORRIBLE COMMENT that the group members said. I share my "qualifications" or whatever because I wanted you to get that I'm not some random person just deciding to think this. I really think that what he did to Chrissie constitutes abuse and is horribly wrong. I hope that Chrissie gets a new therapist that does not try to blame her for her partner's actions. I wanted to email her but did not know about the appropriateness of just sending this out of the blue. I hope that sharing my opinion would ultimately do good not harm to Chrissie and other potential partners of Pat's.
I hope this was clear as I am pretty upset from listening to the podcast.