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01-07-2017, 12:13 PM | #21 (permalink) | |
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Interacting with black people or going to a BLM march or helping refugees does not stop you from being racially insensitive. I live in suburban Alabama I know and interact with plenty of "nice" white women. They may have even protested or volunteer at the boys and girls club. Shoot, they probably even have black grandchildren. None think they are racist. None think they can ever make an insensitive racial remark. It's not true. Racial microaggresions are a constant even around the most well meaning of white people. But when they are corrected or confronted about a microaggresion or insensitive remark, they get indignant like you. I suggest you look up the term "tone policing". It's along the same subject as "not telling oppressed people how to respond to oppression or feel about it" |
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01-07-2017, 12:20 PM | #22 (permalink) |
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I disagree.
People unaffected by the word see it as a thought exercise. An interesting conversation. It's not real for them. The conversation does not carry the same weight or consequences. Hence, the aversion to emotional responses. It's like discussing how sexual assault victims should feel about their assault, with no actual survivors in the room. Sure "nothing wrong with just chatting" but you have to understand how frustrating that would be to sexual assault survivors. |
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01-07-2017, 12:36 PM | #25 (permalink) | |
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It is. I don't know when you started listening, but one of the most popular guests on this show was a black woman who was racist against black people, and made a lot of offensive jokes about it. That's what this show used to be. Even the old promos for the show were more offensive than anything said here. I don't listen much anymore, but it's a lot different now.
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I think it's a good idea to just be relaxed when talking about this stuff. If someone's brave enough to possibly be insensitive, they could be willing to have their mind changed and learn something. That's a good thing. |
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When you are disconnected it's easy to say "calm down, relax". The conversation has no bearing on your life. I haven't spoken to her any more harshly than I speak to my male friends who have a misogyny blind spot. I haven't called her racist or attacked her character. I pointed out how what she said is insensitive and why she shouldn't say it. She replied by trying to prove how good of a white person she is and playing victim to mean black people who refuse to talk to her nicely. |
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01-07-2017, 01:46 PM | #28 (permalink) | |
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But its time people get use to it. You can't want growth and change without being ready to grow and change yourself. Also...the whole "aggressive" thing is cliche to me at this point. (Again, black woman in Alabama) About the Google thing: What aspect of racism would you like to learn about? Asking about book/movie/documentary/youtube recommendations is loved and encouraged even in the most militant black spaces. |
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That is what it sounds like you are suggesting. A racist podcasts is what caused me to stop listening to them back in 2004 when they were first getting started. I wanted to like it so bad because it was mostly funny but every show there was a moment that was like a kick to the chest (aka racist joke). I was 13 at the time so I kept trying to give it a chance. Then gave up. You can only take so many figurative kicks to the chest. |
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