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01-07-2017, 02:11 PM | #31 (permalink) | |
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Honestly, you seem like you would be a lot of emotional work and frustration to be real friends with. Don't take that as a knock tho. Take it as me putting my mental health first. So I would be friendly and have conversations when I had the emotional space. But probably "unfollow" your posts on facebook. |
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01-07-2017, 02:12 PM | #32 (permalink) | |
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I just think you can relax and take emotion out of it when you don't know, and will never meet the people you're talking to. It makes it easier to get your point across, or get some answers. It's up to you. |
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Would you tell someone from an abusive home or a sexual assault victim to take the emotion out of a conversation so that it's easier for you? Do you think they would be able to turn that emotion on and off like a switch? Would you tell them to relax? This conversation is only a thought exercise for yall. This subject (tone policing, white people deciding how black people should feel/react to xyz)has real consequences for my life. Think: work relationships, school, police relations, friends, etc. |
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01-07-2017, 02:24 PM | #35 (permalink) |
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I just think the environment here is for talking about anything. I don't agree with shutting anyone down (including you), especially if they seem open to really talking about something. Just my opinion.
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The kind of thing where a friend would come and try to steer them right but then they list all the black people they've every come in contact with in order to prove they aren't one of the "bad" ones. For example: I had a white socialist friend, the day after Trump got elected, post about how this was the fault of people of color and other minorities not standing up for themselves. (He was a Stein voter) And now its time to stop sitting on our butts and do real work! This was the day after the election. A day a lot of POC and LGBT people spent crying and feeling hopeless. Calling into work. Suicide hotlines backed up. This was not the time to blame minorities for anything. This was overall just an insensitive Facebook post. Had to unfollow. Well meaning, but he just doesn't quite get it. |
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01-07-2017, 02:33 PM | #37 (permalink) |
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This shouldn't matter, but I'm black. It's a sensitive subject for me. I can take emotion out of it because this is just a forum for a comedy podcast. We're just talking.
Anyone who reads this could learn something though if the conversation is calm and thought out. You can give people a whole new way of looking at the issue based on your own personal opinion. If they don't get what you're trying to say, it doesn't change what you know. |
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01-07-2017, 02:37 PM | #38 (permalink) | |
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I didn't shut down the conversation - we are obviously still talking- I continued it in a direction that you didn't intend. I feel strongly about *who* is included in conversations. If you are going to discuss how black people should feel about the n-word, then I feel strongly that black people should be present.(and probably more than one type of black person: age, location, political affiliations, etc.) Because no one else will have the depth of experience. But you have to understand why me as a black woman would not be here for white people gathering to discuss "so why don't blacks just stop being offended by it then" |
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01-07-2017, 02:39 PM | #39 (permalink) | |
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There are people who can remove emotion but a majority don't. My sexual assault example stands. Some women need trigger warnings and some don't. You shouldn't expect all to react a certain way because some do. |
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01-07-2017, 02:44 PM | #40 (permalink) |
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I also feel strongly that black people shouldn't be made to "have to" push down our emotions all the time.
That is not healthy and it literally kills us. (stress cortisol levels much higher) We are not robots. Racism is not just an abstract subject that should be discussed like scientific theories on space. People need to keep that in mind when interacting. People are sensitive. Black people are sensitive. And we are allowed to show emotion. (same for other marginalized groups) |
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