She quoted a friend in regards to disarming men with the baby voice by lowering expectations...

In a world mostly run by patriarchy I'm a bit more forgiving of women that find ways to cope & work around the world they are surrounded in.

Not everyone does it the same way.

Do I speak in a baby voice to get things done? No, it's not my personality, but I do have a brief history of sex work...

Soooo... I don't judge women for sometimes bending their femininity to survive.

Not every woman is comfortable being assertive & a badass (and most of the time labeled a "bitch").

I'm surrounded by them at work right now & try to coach some of them out of their shyness...

i often go into things underestimated. it's a power position if you work it right.

the respect you win over makes those people look like idiots and they're less apt to do it again and it gives them additional impetus to have your back further down the road and to sing your praises to others. shame is a potent tool.

i'm a young-faced puppeteer without a college education; i got fewer legs to stand on, but the ones i do have could kick a hole through a mule. it surprises people. and i like that. they like it, too.

. . and there is love
thank you :p
lolz
very Team_memecherry, c u in a week :D
always Team_Sparrow
Apia . . continuing to win me over;)
think about that!
And who's gonna clean that up? A woman?

Haven't listened, can't vote . .:mad:

you ain't got to. you are you and i like the you that you are. i happen to enjoy playing bloodsport with my feminine wiles or pure sweet innocence if someone is susceptible to it. sometimes just for shits and giggles. don't show me your weakness, bros.

luckily enough, i'm surrounded by an oddly high number of powerful and smart lesbians and that keeps me in check most of the time. that shit does not work on them nor the company they tend to keep.

Put me down for a yes!

one of dEad's fave life aphorisms:
the prerequisite to that being, know your stereotype:D
then you can 'play with it', sparrowesque

When the housing market crashed & I had to change careers from loan processing to office management, I took a nasty paycut... It was also around the same time that I broke up with a long term boyfriend who helped pay the bills when things got tight...

I had already dabbled in fetish modeling & knew some sex workers so I figured I would give it a try, cause hey I enjoy sex!

I went on enough dates to pay the bills for a few months, and quickly started to realize I wasn't meant to be on the "front lines". I started to look into more of a "management" type role & even had a few ladies interested in me helping them... Then the craigslist killer came out in the news (I used craigslist at the time to help me screen potential dates) and I freaked out. The thought of one of my girls possibly landing in a deadly situation made me stop everything & reroute my direction. I moved to a much cheaper apartment & basically starved till I got myself two jobs & was able to finally take care of myself again with a legal paycheck.

Should sex work be legal & safe? yes
Is it for everybody? no....

I don't give all women carte blanche to be asswipes in regards to their femininity, but a woman that has a relatively good head on her shoulders, especially after seeing some of the under belly of the world..

Well... I have a softer spot for them...

she's qualified
 

those tats are horrendous but I like her