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07-02-2017, 06:14 AM | #41 (permalink) |
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Once my mother got fed up with my dad and us not pitching in with the chores. After months of conversations and "nagging".
She went on strike. The only things she bought for groceries for a week was bread, peanut butter and jelly. She also went pretty much MIA that week. We got the message. |
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07-02-2017, 09:15 AM | #43 (permalink) |
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I think this mindset takes any action done outside of his expectation as "disrespect". reminds me of extreme religions. 'every action you take is a sin and underserving of forgiveness, amd therefor deserving of punishment".
if time management (or whatever) is that central to your soul, you shouldnt have married someone with shit time management. since he did, wmd has children and a life and kids and a mortgage and 15 years with this woman, he should shut the fuck up with these petty games. |
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07-02-2017, 01:30 PM | #45 (permalink) |
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also, he goes on an on and on about how much he does for women in relationships that's unacknowledged and disrespected. what /exactly/ does he do for women he dates. also, I'd be willing to expect he takes a shit ton of emotional labor for granted.
i can't imagine what it must feel like to hate women that much. |
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this is also a bullshit attitude if you can't extend empathy to your brotherkin. |
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07-02-2017, 02:44 PM | #48 (permalink) |
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Here's why Dante's specific cabinet/towel advice won't work: they're not Keith's. They belong to Keith and Cat.
Taking away the cabinet doors so matter-of-factly and replacing towels ( specifically just Cat's, BTW) says nothing else besides "as man of the house, these are my items to bestow upon you or take away from you, as I see fit." I know Keith doesn't look at it like this. I extra know that Cat would absolutely not tolerate that bullshit for a hot second. |
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He didn't advocate for "training up a woman". He said he had non negotiables. Everyone in your life has things they will not deal with. You likely know them and avoid doing them. You aren't "trained". You are just respectful of their wishes. When someone steps over your line you have to correct them immediately or they will continue to cross the line, because you didn't set the boundary and stick to it. When I was younger I had a "no cursing" rule for boys who were interested in dating me. (cursing made me uncomfortable) When caking on the phone at night I would remind them 3 times before I would say "goodnight" and end the conversation. The action step worked every time. (teenagers love caking) |
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how do you "correct" people in your life? what's the farthest you've gone to make a point? |
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