2718: Love Is Hard

[Sparrow]

maybe it just takes a village for me to feel the most completely loved and comfortable; lots of intimacy of different kinds on different levels with a cadre of people that flow in and out. monogamy makes something in me stop breathing.

i wish the english language had more nuanced words for love. one of the guys that licks my bottom is also a sterling friend of nigh on a decade. the time we make to spend together is a fine seasoning on what's likely to be a lifetime cast iron bond. i'd like a more precise description for that feel.

[Archimedes_Screw]

Chemda's laugh makes me happy no matter how bad I'm feeling at the time.

[keith1215]

I'd prefer monogamy because I need a real intimacy that it can provide.

[Sparrow]

so "real" intimacy only comes from monogamy? that's a poop stinky thing to say.

[Apia]

Originally Posted by Sparrow

so "real" intimacy only comes from monogamy? that's a poop stinky thing to say.

I don't think it does, I see it happening in a poly situation, but less in one night stands.

[Sparrow]

see, that makes sense. is that what you meant, fake keith?

[keith1215]

I just gave a first-hand answer based on what I experienced in a poly.
And I'm pretty sure there're hundreds of people with Keith as their name and I happened and I'm happy to be one of them.

[amnesiac]

Originally Posted by Skyler

Chemda laughing at Billy when he said his ex was 24 was the best thing ever.

I love that scream-laugh that cannot be contained. And Billy is such a good sport, especially for a guy going through a break up. Great guest!