2791: Friend Zone

[Mermaid]

Originally Posted by Sparrow

i like the baiting part of the game. the bottom's always felt like a power position to me.

I like when they let me dominate for a while first. Let me get real cocky and start talking shit. Then flip the script like "bitch you thought!"

Kind of like a dominance competition to see who can make who the most submissive. I prefer to lose but I'm still bringing my "A" game so he actually has to work for the win.

The power position is only fun for me if I know its temporary.

[Mermaid]

Originally Posted by memecherry

I've tried the app dating in the last year, but the messages I get do not inspire me to go on any dates, I would rather work on my art or go out & network for my art.

Saaaame.

250 matches in three days and no one can come up with a better convo than "what are you looking for on this app?" and "what's your Instagram?". And when I try to steer the conversation to something more interesting like a popular news story or something they are opinion-less and go right back to "what's your favorite color?".


I deleted after two weeks of disappointment.

Just gonna focus on school til it's warmer outside then work on creating a work/life balance. Hopefully I'll encounter better people in real life.

[flerchin]

Doing what Mermaid and Sparrow describe in the bedroom, even with fully discussed consent, sounds like the road to a rape trial. Dominating Mrs Flerchin took years of being married before we started exploring those options. I feel like any partners still in the dating-phase better be super fucking cautious.

[astrokahn]

Met my bf of 2+ years on Tinder. I'd been on and off dating sites for years, typically off bc of men being overtly sexual right off the bat (Hey gorgeous, wanna see my fat Italian sausage?). (Yes really) and that one guy who sent me Bible scriptures for days bc my profile said "non religious"..

Anywhoo, the clit massage group thingy, I heard a lady tell a story about this once on a podcast (love and radio). It's kind of scarily like Landmark. But for clits.

[astrokahn]

oh- and terrible dates! One guy told me on a date that I had "dude hair" (it was just above shoulder length), then proceeded to yap on and on about his super hot stripper ex girlfriend, then as we were waiting for the check said "I GOTTA GO TAKE A DUMP" and went to the bathroom. AND I FUCKEN SAT THERE INSTEAD OF LEAVING. If I can be so easily immobilized I can't imagine what I'd not do seeing a man come out of the bathroom in a slipping bath robe.

[punk'n]

Originally Posted by Sparrow

if i was unclear, i'm not saying be a pillow princess. it's more being prey as if being devoured is its one instinct. stoking your hunter's senses. stripping his humanity; turning him feral.

I miss you...

[Sparrow]

Originally Posted by punk'n

I miss you...

i miss you, too.

[Kathy67]

It's true, that some dates may become disasters. However, while they are terrible during the meeting itself, they become a great story to tell after I also have some anegdotes I really like sharing with my friends.

[Sparrow]

Originally Posted by Kathy67

I also have some anegdotes I really like sharing with my friends.

can we be friends for said anecdotal purposes?

[Cretaceous Bob]

I think James Spader is a super creepy dude but I still think the stuff in Secretary is pretty hot.