3232: Dopamine Loops w/ Patrick Holbert and Ross Erin Martineau
 

Secrets, lies, addiction, and infidelity; cross-dressing and wedding invitations; vvitches; dermatillomania

Guests:
Patrick Holbert
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Ross Erin Martineau
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Good for you.

But ask him.

The timing of this pool is suspicious. Lately, I’ve been wanting to be cheated on to see what it feels like or something. Am I bat shit crazy? Although, I kinda sorta maybe have feelings (or more like lustings) for two different people rn besides my bf (I’m behaving), so maybe that has something to do with it. Maybe I’ve been listening to too much Alanis and taking too much liberty with my thoughts.

You cheatin’ emotionally, bitch? Haha! - Lil Wayne

WHAT?!

Tell us more...

Also Lil Wayne : If you ain’t running with it, run from it mothafucka alright!

What would Jesus...scratch that...Lil Wayne do? JK.

I haven’t cheated since hs on a guy I didn’t like. I like to think I’ve evolved since then. I actually like this one. But part of me feels like I’m missing out on something. What does it all mean?!

An open relationship and all the extras of these guests is on the ridiculous end for me though. FFS I’m not that cool. Honestly don’t think it works. It seems even crazier than monogamy, which I don’t think is entirely natural either, but seems way more workable/rational than poly relationships.

That’s not what I said

I'm only 5 mins in, so I think this is a record for me stopping the episode to come to the forums.

I was quite shocked at how candidly they spoke and joked about having STDs, and I think it's great! More people need to be so honest about it so that it stops becoming a taboo. Obv it's ideal not to have one, but people talking about it will stop others feeling so much shame around it!

And back to the show!

These two were a lot of fun, but also a Megalodon of Williamsburg hipster nonsense.

I've heard that before, in terms of the US. I don't know if it's the same in the UK and Europe, but it's definitely not spoken about. And I feel like there's quite a stigma around it here too.