Keith and The Girl Forums

Keith and The Girl Forums (http://www.keithandthegirl.com/forums/)
-   Show Talk (http://www.keithandthegirl.com/forums/f5/)
-   -   3284: How to Podcast w/ Katharine Heller (http://www.keithandthegirl.com/forums/f5/3284-how-podcast-w-katharine-heller-21864/)

Rufio 06-21-2020 09:41 AM

Cadaver Dogs
 
The mystery of the holes at the Malley farm has been part of the KATG lore from the very beginning but with everything thatís come out recently thereís almost no way that there wasnít some nefarious purpose behind them. We need to set up a go fund me to hire someone to come on to the property with cadaver dogs and find out what was really going on. I swear, this whole father Malley saga is just one step away from being a full on murder mystery docu-series on Netflix.

Oh and yíall would need a film crew to record the dogs finding all the bodies.

Keith 06-21-2020 11:22 AM

Brothervlad: She was up for a couple of days?

Maybe her dog died too.

Yes, the problem MIGHT be that she videotaped it and posted it. ;)

spkheller 06-21-2020 02:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Apia resurrected (Post 883998)
I would advise against a public statement according the moleststion. This would lead to lots of speculation among the community and likely out the victim.

I liked Keith's advice way more.

I will say I go back and forth about this! It's complicated. I just wish more people took personal responsibility, but I hear you. Thx for listening

Scorpion 06-21-2020 06:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rufio (Post 884006)
The mystery of the holes at the Malley farm has been part of the KATG lore from the very beginning but with everything thatís come out recently thereís almost no way that there wasnít some nefarious purpose behind them. We need to set up a go fund me to hire someone to come on to the property with cadaver dogs and find out what was really going on. I swear, this whole father Malley saga is just one step away from being a full on murder mystery docu-series on Netflix.

Oh and yíall would need a film crew to record the dogs finding all the bodies.

That is probably where family cats went. You can't mock the cat in its presence but you can bury it in the back yard after making the kids dig the grave.

Scorpion 06-21-2020 06:14 PM

She's back!
 
Always nice hearing Katharine Heller on the show. She has such a great laugh and fits so nicely into the show, very natural.

Piscean 06-23-2020 03:48 PM

Concerning the 10pm TXT from Mother Malley to Keith about missing Father's Day. Did she really send it, or did FM send from her phone?

The Girl 06-23-2020 05:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Piscean (Post 884037)
Concerning the 10pm TXT from Mother Malley to Keith about missing Father's Day. Did she really send it, or did FM send from her phone?


Oooooh didnít think of that!!! Good question!!


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

littlp 06-24-2020 07:16 AM

So the abuser-talk to a therapist first before going forward with anything. People react differently to trauma. The victim might remember or his brain might have buried it to protect him. He might be in denial, he might not be. You just never know how someone is going to react. And if you do a public statement-thatís cause rampant speculation and god forbid if someone guesses what happened. As great as it is that you are admitted that you fucked up wnd seem self-aware that you donít want to make it about you-you need to wait for him to say something, if he ever does. And go to therapy to work through what you did. Youíll be able to provide them with more information than you can to a podcast and they can hopefully lead you in the right direction. And feel free to shop around for therapists. If you get one who just wants to harp on you for what you did versus helping you through it, or you arenít comfortable, find another one. There are many online options as well.


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Britt 06-25-2020 06:53 PM

Literally finally stopped being lazy and made a forum account just to reply about a few things in the abuser letter.

I wanted to say as a therapist, the mandated reporting(have worked in two different states now and has been valid across both) is for child abuse, active/intent/plan suicidal ideation, and homicidal ideation. Like you seriously have to have a plan with those two, or we have to really really sick where we donít think you can consent. That second one is real iffy, unless you have a therapist who is inexperienced and afraid to ask the hard questions. Then get a different therapist because, I donít know, itís our job to ask the hard questions? As far as child abuse it has to be to someone who is a child. Aka the child is/could be in danger. If that person is an adult it doesnít qualify. If whatever the child protective services have already been involved for this situation, it also doesnít qualify. So yes, therapy therapy therapy.

On another side as someone who has been sexually abused multiple times by multiple people(I became a therapist for a reason and have been through lots of therapy for a reason) it was incredibly helpful for me when it was acknowledged by my first (teenage years) abuser. He was a boyfriend and even just him acknowledging ďyeah I knew you werenít comfortable with itĒ was a floodgate to me starting to no longer blame myself for things I thought I was at fault in because I didnít know how to stop it when ďnoĒ didnít work and I wasnít violent towards him, continued the relationship for a year, and while wasnít really consensual blamed myself for.... 10 or so years? I couldnít really take my own blame out of it until that happened, but( and a heavy but here) that was just me and where I was at in my healing. I think just a general apology and then if he pushes it then the conversation gets open. But also therapy, because otherwise it could quickly turn into all about the abusers guilt and not the survivorís pain. Or go to a therapist together! I do family work, am trained in it, I would totally do a session about that if it was beneficial to both people.


That was significantly longer than intended. My bad.


All times are GMT -5. The time now is 01:49 PM.

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2022, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
SEO by vBSEO 3.6.1
Keith and The GirlAd Management plugin by RedTyger