3330: Trapped w/ Casey James Salengo and Danny Vega
 

Thirst trap debacles and controlling personalities; coronavirus and political rhetoric

Guests:
Casey James Salengo
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Danny Vega
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Making popcorn for this episode.

I run all of my thirst trap likes by my wife.

"May I like this ass honey?"

"Hmm... How often do you see this person?"

"Not now cause of COVID?"

More like “okay but did you read the caption? It’s hilarious!”

You're allowed 10 Likes a week but no rollover Likes.

Loving the cross-overs that are happening between KATG and AITA.

Danny's out of line in how he treated Hannah (he also claimed it was the first time someone broke up with him), but it was interesting to hear his side.

And Casey's great as always.

It’s better than a dollar, Chemda. It’s free serotonin.

Thirst trapping is like getting affirmations on roids, but in the best (and safest) format ever, with a screen separating us and perhaps thousands of miles. Unlike when a guy says or does something on the street (let’s be honest, don’t have to worry about girls) when you’re just going about your life and you have no choice in it, nor in how he responds to it. Posting a thirst trap changes that power dynamic. Not only do I now have a choice in it, but I can be as intentional and risqué as I want without it being risky. And this way, I don’t have to hear it verbalized. Just to know in abstract by seeing the likes is actually perfect. Like all things social media, it can get addicting and take a bad turn if you’re not careful (the likes dictating your self-esteem, etc.)

I loved how Casey wasn’t doing Danny any favors right out the gate. St. Salengo <3

Casey seems very evolved, he seems to have worked on himself a lot.
There is still potential of course, maybe with appointments and stuff, but then it comes to feelings and responsibility, I was impressed that he has seen it as his own problem with the bra for example.

This is a real "not all men" moment. Because 2 out of 3 men on this episode understand the point - and one is like "what? i can't like an ass pic?? she's controlling!"

Respect when a girl says "this behavior makes me uncomfortable, can you please not" instead of gaslighting her into being the asshole.

I woke up this morning to notifications of some rando I went to high school with liking over a dozen of my pics dating YEARS back. This is the second day in a row he's done this. Get some self awareness, no thank you.

I liked Apia's picture of a mushroom yesterday. She knows what's up. Drip drip ;)

I voted "WHAAAT?!" but that's because I get to come at it from the male queer point of view. Half my friends are posting traps and I've seen those bodies in real life, so I click like just as a support. If I'm in a relationship, I'm also showing my partner, because we both enjoy the view.

Plus with the Instagram algorithm, it I don't like the Holesome pictures, it'll stop showing me the Wholesome pics of that person.

The mushroom was thirsty for some likes. All the rainwater wasn't enough.

If I was a single, non business person, I would also post some traps because it's fun.
But I can't, more for work reasons. Not that the company would say something. Work life and personal life are coming together more and more on social media and being in sales it could definitely be misunderstood.
" have you seen my ass pics old doctor I'm alone in his office with because the stuff already left for lunch? Great."

I started seeing red when Danny was talking about the apologies. Can we get him blacklisted from eating out, anywhere?


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But he just wants people to be sorry for the things they should be sorry for. What's wrong with that? I think he should be a priest.

"Interesting" indeed. Every story started out with something that sounded non-offensive, like, I just ASKED her to wear her hair BACK, and very slowly teased out the truth of, I was a huge dick. Be honest with yourself, Danny!

So Thirsty
 

So I agree with both Keith and Chemda. AND it goes like this...

You can't be liking thirst traps of people you know, that is too much thirst. It is either one of two things weird/creepy or flirty.

'Like' anything you want if you don't know them and they are not in your circle where you will know them. Davy can like all the Scarlet Johansson he wants but thirst for "friends" is looking for a response. Not cool Davy! AND I really don't believe you think it's as innocent as you make it out to be.

As far as needing to approve Hanna's appearance fuck you Davy! She is a wild free spirit and you knew that going in to the relationship. I agree with Xerxes when he said "When did we stop talking?" No approval is really needed and I don't mind if my wife were to change her hair color and surprise me. But again it was part of who she was and is so it's not so much a sudden shocking change.

How the fuck is that agreeing with BOTH of us?

You only agree with me! It’s okay to say. Say it!

Think of it as you're both half right not that Chemda is half right and you're half wrong.

Also, I think I'm clearly agreeing with both of you, we can discuss it tonight.

It is so weird that Danny was so in arms about not being able to like a picture. She didn’t even tell him to stop looking at these pictures-just stop liking them...especially being such a new relationship it shouldn’t have been that hard. Glad he is going to therapy to address this shit.


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Right?
 

You get it now right?
We’re all good.

Luv da’ show!

Aye carumba