Anal sex. Thumbs up? Thumbs down?

[djoh615893]

How much sensation difference is there from dildo to buttplug? A buttplug appears to merely spread and stimulate the hole, where a dildo would seem to stimulate deep inside and be nicely intense.

[Uncast]

Originally Posted by madeyeshawn

It feels good as a guy, the prostate is the male g-spot.

and you don't have to be gay, they make toys to do the job.

90% of the time im the dominate role, and 10% of the time I get treated to a fun role reversal with my gf.

One piece of advice on anal play: Do it yourself with a toy first. I remember my gf tried sticking a finger in and it hurt like hell, but then when i experimented with a butt plug by myself it was a careful and painless experience that gets better each time.

It absolutely should not hurt, if it hurts your doing it wrong and should stop right away.

Its also not smart to do it intoxicated. Be safe, explore on your own first, and have fun.

If your a guy and afraid of this idea, just know your missing 50% of your potential orgasm intensity. Its your choice and definitely your loss.

Thumbs up on recieving !!!!

amen to all this. I do enjoy it as well and couldn't agree more with the above.

I may also add that the "slow and steady wins the race" line is totally appropriate here. You can't just go back there and bang away. Work at it slowly a bit with the fingers or a toy. After a few minutes of stimulus naturally relaxing and expanding the hole a bit, putting a penis back there should not be painful unless of course you've got a dick with the girth of a horse or something.

OH and shoving your entire length in the ass isn't recommended either. See what your partner is comfortable with, take it slow and LISTEN to your partner. If they aren't digging it, they aren't digging it. Stop, pull back and try it again another time when they're ready. Sex should be fun for all involved. If someone's not enjoying themselves, then something's wrong.

[Abacus]

Take it fast, take it raw. Hard, rough, and hot! No lube, hands free!

Amirite?!

I m. I m so many rite.

[lalalemon]

I learned this yesterday. Trust your partner when he tells you to go slow.

[CherryLavender]

Definitely a thumbs up. Everything has to be aligned perfectly for me though- my head space is the most important. I've been looking at porn and it just hits me and I go grab my hubby and say "come fuck me in the ass". He's always happy to oblige! My wife on the other hand, is not into at all.

[madeyeshawn]

Originally Posted by Abacus

Take it fast, take it raw. Hard, rough, and hot! No lube, hands free!

Amirite?!

I m. I m so many rite.

you should never do anal without lube. And Saliva does not count. You will be at risk for tears and hemorrhoids not to mention it probably wont feel good. Epic Failure.

[madeyeshawn]

Originally Posted by djoh615893

How much sensation difference is there from dildo to buttplug? A buttplug appears to merely spread and stimulate the hole, where a dildo would seem to stimulate deep inside and be nicely intense.

For me the butt plug is great while your fucking your partner. You can flex your sphincter muscles and create your own prostate manipulation without missing a beat or it falling out.

But

If im looking for extra pleasure during masturbation its all about the dildo. Last weekend I was extremely close to a hands free orgasm with nothing but the anal stimulation from a medium sized dildo, I gave up and probably did 2 or 3 strokes total to have an explosive orgasm. ACES times 10.

What is also additionally great is it gives you a new perspective on your porn. Now I take my time and enjoy the whole video. For the past 10 years i have watched up to the point of erection and then fast forward to the end to see the climax essentially missing out on 95% of the material. Now when im in the mood for some extra special alone time its a patient and deep (pun intended) experience. Its like re inventing the wheel, everybody should be doing it.

[madeyeshawn]

Originally Posted by CherryLavender

My wife on the other hand, is not into at all.

You have a wife and a husband????

Im confused

[Abacus]

Originally Posted by madeyeshawn

you should never do anal without lube. And Saliva does not count. You will be at risk for tears and hemorrhoids not to mention it probably wont feel good. Epic Failure.

Girl, you don't know how wrong you are. Anal is ONLY good without lube. It's a medical fact, google it.

[shoogbear63]

Originally Posted by madeyeshawn

It feels good as a guy, the prostate is the male g-spot.

and you don't have to be gay, they make toys to do the job.

So that's what Team Joystick means.