The Gay Thread

[porky2468]

Originally Posted by Abacus

Do you think you can see yourself being intimate with, or having a relationship with another woman?

Yeah, I can and I'm really quite eager to try it. But I don't know if it's just a phase or something. It's easy enough to meet guys, but I'd have no idea how to talk to a random girl (I'm not really interested in any of the girls I already know)!

[aldo mcgee]

Homo in the room.
28 and gay. Looks like I'm the oldest one around here. /sigh
When did I get old?

[CuriousKlepto]

Originally Posted by aldo mcgee

Homo in the room.
28 and gay. Looks like I'm the oldest one around here. /sigh
When did I get old?

Don't get down about that. Older guys are hot, they know what they're doing and aren't all nervous like inexperienced buffoons such as myself. Besides 28 is not old, just slightly seasoned and great tasting, like a nice wine.

[aldo mcgee]

Originally Posted by CuriousKlepto

Don't get down about that. Older guys are hot, they know what they're doing and aren't all nervous like inexperienced buffoons such as myself. Besides 28 is not old, just slightly seasoned and great tasting, like a nice wine.

Haha. Nice. I love that answer. It's true. When you've been fucking for half your life you learn a thing or two.

[CuriousKlepto]

Originally Posted by aldo mcgee

Haha. Nice. I love that answer. It's true. When you've been fucking for half your life you learn a thing or two.

I'm kinda jealous of you for that. Well that, and for being the first man at brunch.

[Abacus]

Aldo!! <33

[Abacus]

Some friends from work are trying to set me up with another gay guy they know. I'm not gonna lie, even though I'm half-interested, I'm not exactly impressed... Their whole logic is, "YOU'RE gay! HE'S gay! YOU TWO ARE PERFECT FOR EACH OTHER!"

I think not. I have yet to meet this fellow, and he already sounds like a little bit of a mess from what they've been telling me.

Someone give me some worthwhile advice.

[marina]

Originally Posted by Abacus

Some friends from work are trying to set me up with another gay guy they know. I'm not gonna lie, even though I'm half-interested, I'm not exactly impressed... Their whole logic is, "YOU'RE gay! HE'S gay! YOU TWO ARE PERFECT FOR EACH OTHER!"

I think not. I have yet to meet this fellow, and he already sounds like a little bit of a mess from what they've been telling me.

Someone give me some worthwhile advice.

Why don't you plan to hang out with him as part of a group? That way if he's a weirdo, you can talk to other people, or not feel so guilty about leaving early "I forgot to wash my hair" style.

[CuriousKlepto]

Originally Posted by Abacus

Some friends from work are trying to set me up with another gay guy they know. I'm not gonna lie, even though I'm half-interested, I'm not exactly impressed... Their whole logic is, "YOU'RE gay! HE'S gay! YOU TWO ARE PERFECT FOR EACH OTHER!"

I think not. I have yet to meet this fellow, and he already sounds like a little bit of a mess from what they've been telling me.

Someone give me some worthwhile advice.

Give him a chance. Guys who know they're a mess try harder when talking to cute guys like you. You might like him. And don't get all mad about straight logic, it does make sense. Although that could just be the desperation in me saying that. And you know what, worse comes to worse, pull a Keith and just literally walk away. Don't say anything, no lame excuses, just pick up your speed until he can't find you. Rude? Yes, but also effective.

[VioletAmnesia]

23/bi/engaged to a girl

I dont really have a coming out story, my parents being the most laidback/unintrested people ever. I like boys but had never really dated till I went to Uni at 18 where I met a Yank who couldnt keep it up that I dumped on chirstmas day, a goth who utterly fucked with my head (1st love) and a huge dicked car addict who told me he loved me within 2 days and then constanty found traits of mine that he said ment I was gay, mainly because every other woman he had been with turned out that way.

Having come off the antidepresants (needed after boy number 2) and dumped boy 3 I found myself starting a uni year without a bf for the first time and figured Id go along to the LGBT, knowing i did usesd to have fantasys but never realy feeling the need to question when I had someone.

There I met the lady whos gonna be my wife and i'm quite happy with people thinking of me as gay, though I self identify as bi.