The Gay Thread

notedhero · 01-08-2010, 01:24 PM

It's just a penis, people. Get over it.

CuriousKlepto · 01-08-2010, 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by notedhero

It's just a penis, people. Get over it.

Yeah, sure, to you it's just a penis, but for me, it's so much more. It's the most private part of a guy. The one thing that's off limits. When a guy sends me a dick pic it's personal to me. I've only been lucky enough to have three guys do it, so it still means alot to me. I'm sure if I had recieved as many as Newsy, or somebody, it would mean less though.

notedhero · 01-08-2010, 05:47 PM

The most private part of a guy (or anyone, for that matter) are their thoughts. That's my opinion. There are far more thoughts and feelings that people keep to themselves more than their genitals. I see where you're coming from, but I'm not going to be made to feel guilty about it (just a general statement, not an accusation). That's ludicrous.

CuriousKlepto · 01-08-2010, 05:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by notedhero

The most private part of a guy (or anyone, for that matter) are their thoughts. That's my opinion. There are far more thoughts and feelings that people keep to themselves more than their genitals. I see where you're coming from, but I'm not going to be made to feel guilty about it (just a general statement, not an accusation). That's ludicrous.

I guess people just trust me, everyone's always telling me their private thoughts, their feelings, and any bad tings they might have done. So that's not something I find to be kept all that private when it comes to me. Body parts on the other hand...
And why should you feel guilty?

notedhero · 01-08-2010, 06:19 PM

I'm the same way. I don't think that makes it any less private if you are one of those people, though.

And I shouldn't (and don't). Lately, though, I've come across a lot of people who really give people shit for doing or saying anything they don't have the balls to say. It's infuriating.

dramadude · 01-09-2010, 12:39 AM

Hi all. I am pretty new to this thread/the forums in general. I have recently discovered who i am....at 20. took me long enough. Anyways i have a wee bit of an issue.

There is the big double standard when it comes to bisexual men. For bisexual women, men find it a big turn on that their girl wants to lick vag. But for bisexual men, most women aren't as thrilled at the prospect of their hubby going down on a guy.

Here is the issue. I go to school and am in a very small class. We are together 12 hours a day and then go home and hang out with the same people after school. So we are a very tight knit group and thus secrets don't stay secret for very long. I am debating wether or not to come out to people. I am weighing the pros and cons. If i do tell people it allows me to be who i am and get to experience being with a guy outside of just the bedroom. But as soon as i do this i am essentially taking myself off the market to women. I have already been with a few of the guys in my year so word has started to get around and i have actually already been turned down by a girl because she thinks I am gay after hearing that i have slept with men.

Is there anything i can do? should i keep denying that i have slept with men or should i just come out with it? Do i have to decide which gender i like more?

notedhero · 01-09-2010, 12:59 AM

You can't really deny it if it's a tight group, and you've slept with some of them. I don't want to tell you what you should do, but if you're at a place where you're fine with being bi, then you should do it. And, just so you know, there are girls who really like bi men. Don't know if they're in your area or not, but they're out there.

It's silly to let other people's thoughts about you dictate your life (as I'm sure you're already starting to feel), so even if you decide to stay in the closet, you shouldn't let their judgments affect your attraction to women, and choice to sleep with them.

flavio · 01-09-2010, 04:06 PM

As a interesting fact, Portugal just legalized same sex marriage:
Same-sex marriage in Portugal - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Now for the kicker, in a country with a massive abstention in most elections there was protests asking for a referendum.
And also was the first time i was screamed at for my political opinions, as I'm not gay but supported same sex marriage.
So happy marriage to all Portuguese fairies.

RealEmotionX · 01-13-2010, 01:55 AM

*Rocks back and forth*

Guys, Its not that my Penis is private. I just wanna keep you guessing. I also dont wanna be part of a 'collection' unless I am getting ass fucked.

notedhero · 01-13-2010, 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by flavio

As a interesting fact, Portugal just legalized same sex marriage:
Same-sex marriage in Portugal - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Now for the kicker, in a country with a massive abstention in most elections there was protests asking for a referendum.
And also was the first time i was screamed at for my political opinions, as I'm not gay but supported same sex marriage.
So happy marriage to all Portuguese fairies.

Is it bad that I can't even be happy until it's for real, for real?

01-08-2010, 01:24 PM	#1581 (permalink)
notedhero Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: NYC Posts: 567	It's just a penis, people. Get over it.
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01-08-2010, 05:47 PM	#1583 (permalink)
notedhero Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: NYC Posts: 567	The most private part of a guy (or anyone, for that matter) are their thoughts. That's my opinion. There are far more thoughts and feelings that people keep to themselves more than their genitals. I see where you're coming from, but I'm not going to be made to feel guilty about it (just a general statement, not an accusation). That's ludicrous.
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01-08-2010, 06:19 PM	#1585 (permalink)
notedhero Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: NYC Posts: 567	I'm the same way. I don't think that makes it any less private if you are one of those people, though. And I shouldn't (and don't). Lately, though, I've come across a lot of people who really give people shit for doing or saying anything they don't have the balls to say. It's infuriating.
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01-09-2010, 12:39 AM	#1586 (permalink)
dramadude Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 2	Hi all. I am pretty new to this thread/the forums in general. I have recently discovered who i am....at 20. took me long enough. Anyways i have a wee bit of an issue. There is the big double standard when it comes to bisexual men. For bisexual women, men find it a big turn on that their girl wants to lick vag. But for bisexual men, most women aren't as thrilled at the prospect of their hubby going down on a guy. Here is the issue. I go to school and am in a very small class. We are together 12 hours a day and then go home and hang out with the same people after school. So we are a very tight knit group and thus secrets don't stay secret for very long. I am debating wether or not to come out to people. I am weighing the pros and cons. If i do tell people it allows me to be who i am and get to experience being with a guy outside of just the bedroom. But as soon as i do this i am essentially taking myself off the market to women. I have already been with a few of the guys in my year so word has started to get around and i have actually already been turned down by a girl because she thinks I am gay after hearing that i have slept with men. Is there anything i can do? should i keep denying that i have slept with men or should i just come out with it? Do i have to decide which gender i like more?
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01-09-2010, 12:59 AM	#1587 (permalink)
notedhero Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: NYC Posts: 567	You can't really deny it if it's a tight group, and you've slept with some of them. I don't want to tell you what you should do, but if you're at a place where you're fine with being bi, then you should do it. And, just so you know, there are girls who really like bi men. Don't know if they're in your area or not, but they're out there. It's silly to let other people's thoughts about you dictate your life (as I'm sure you're already starting to feel), so even if you decide to stay in the closet, you shouldn't let their judgments affect your attraction to women, and choice to sleep with them. __________________ "I don't need everyone knowing THAT. My telling you that I was a Canadian Popstar in the 90's(despite the fact that it looks like the 80's in my music videos) is not something I enjoy telling people." -CuriousKlepto
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01-09-2010, 04:06 PM	#1588 (permalink)
flavio Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Portugal Posts: 20	As a interesting fact, Portugal just legalized same sex marriage: Same-sex marriage in Portugal - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Now for the kicker, in a country with a massive abstention in most elections there was protests asking for a referendum. And also was the first time i was screamed at for my political opinions, as I'm not gay but supported same sex marriage. So happy marriage to all Portuguese fairies.
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01-13-2010, 01:55 AM	#1589 (permalink)
RealEmotionX Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: fucking wyoming Posts: 447	Rocks back and forth Guys, Its not that my Penis is private. I just wanna keep you guessing. I also dont wanna be part of a 'collection' unless I am getting ass fucked.
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