The Gay Thread

[CuriousKlepto]

So was I when the picture was taken. Imagine him older, he's really cute(straight). I need dark eyes and hair. Blonde haired, blue eyed people freak me out. I get like concentration camp flashbacks. They could be the nicest guy in the world, I just instinctively don't like them.

[Abacus]

Originally Posted by CuriousKlepto

So was I when the picture was taken. Imagine him older, he's really cute(straight). I need dark eyes and hair. Blonde haired, blue eyed people freak me out. I get like concentration camp flashbacks. They could be the nicest guy in the world, I just instinctively don't like them.

I just like guys who look like they make SOME sort of effort to make themselves look nice. A larger, manlier build is a plus. Also, I like aggressive tops.

I think blondes are pretty.

[CuriousKlepto]

I'm not entirely sure if I'm a top or bottom yet? Oh well, I'll find out eventually... I hope.

[Abacus]

Originally Posted by CuriousKlepto

I'm not entirely sure if I'm a top or bottom yet? Oh well, I'll find out eventually... I hope.

What do you mean, "I hope"??? Everyone gets laid. Stop being down on yourself, and you will get sexed. Go out more. etc.

Where do you live? Small town?

[CuriousKlepto]

I know it'll happen, I'm just so sick of waiting.

Btws, I finally made it past 100 posts Woohoo for me!

[Abacus]

nigga din't even answer my question. smh.

PS- Congrats!

[CuriousKlepto]

Sorry missed it the first time around. My town is like a geriatric ghetto. I have the old polish people who are overly religious and the gangsters that come down from NYC to hide from the cops and sell drugs. No place for gays to congragate without persecution. Plus I'm not really attracted to the kind of gays that do go to the meetings. They're all like Jack McFarland and I can't stand having to talk to them, not even just to lose it so I've had to accept the inevitable. Until I can get up enough cash to move far away from here, I'm probably not getting laid. I mean I've only had one date and he was turned off by my inexperience and Aspie-ness.

[meatwad]

I knew I was gay when I found a word for it. It sort of back-explained why I always liked looking at actors rather than actresses.

And my new thing now is I don't have a type. I look at everyone individually. Some minorities are hot. Some older gents are hot. Some bigger guys are hot. There's no deal breakers.

[soquedhozi]

I always liked girls, but learned that girls were supposed to like boys when I was around 8. I met other bisexuals, gays and transgenders when I was 16, and suddenly realized that I indeed was bisexual, having a stronger liking for females than males, and just jumped straight into the lovely carousel of Pride festivals, gay clubs and new friendships.

I've never really had a hard time being what I am, except for my mother constantly compaining that I REALLY should grow out of this "experimenting". (On the brighter side, my grandmother and her sisters shared AWESOME girl-on-girl-stories with me.)
I always feel bad when I hear about others with difficulties; I was the only open gay (well, sorta gay) in the village and all that, but still, I had it pretty easy.


Oh, whatever. Gay guys usually don't care about gay girls, and I'll bet the only gays (or other non-heterosexuals) here'll be guys. Mostly because gay girls don't have a sense of humour since they're too busy figuring out if they should be offended. Anyways, cheers to the lot of ye.

[Abacus]

Originally Posted by soquedhozi

I always liked girls, but learned that girls were supposed to like boys when I was around 8. I met other bisexuals, gays and transgenders when I was 16, and suddenly realized that I indeed was bisexual, having a stronger liking for females than males, and just jumped straight into the lovely carousel of Pride festivals, gay clubs and new friendships.

I've never really had a hard time being what I am, except for my mother constantly compaining that I REALLY should grow out of this "experimenting". (On the brighter side, my grandmother and her sisters shared AWESOME girl-on-girl-stories with me.)
I always feel bad when I hear about others with difficulties; I was the only open gay (well, sorta gay) in the village and all that, but still, I had it pretty easy.


Oh, whatever. Gay guys usually don't care about gay girls, and I'll bet the only gays (or other non-heterosexuals) here'll be guys. Mostly because gay girls don't have a sense of humour since they're too busy figuring out if they should be offended. Anyways, cheers to the lot of ye.

I love that your grandmother and her sisters had girl-on-girl stories! ahahaha!

My cousin's bisexual too, and she didn't even realize for the longest time cuz she was like, "I thought girls were just more attractive than guys, so it was normal for me to think so." She didn't realize that if she finds girls attractive it means she is actually attracted to them until very recently.

Yeah, being in a small town sucks ass, in the worst way. I live in a rich little suburb about an hour outside of Toronto. It's all old white people here, and cookie-cutter Abercrombie&Fitch teens. It's a bit nauseating.
My one salvation is that I can hop on the GOTrain and be in the heart of downtown toronto within the hour whenever I want. It wasn't until like, 2 years ago, when I really started to go out that I started hooking up with guys at all. Even now there's so many (TOO many) dry spells.

Horray for big cities, seriously. Can't wait to finish college and GTFOutta here.