Hey perverts! Will you take this poll or give it?

[typicallistener]

cool titties bro

[madeyeshawn]

Originally Posted by typicallistener

cool titties bro

I want to learn how to do that, its pretty dam sexy but not something you would want to try without some heavy research/training.

Thanks for the Fetlife recommendation picard!

[madeyeshawn]

This video is AWESOME!

Eat this up pervs

03-BasicChestHarness

[Gold Experience]

You've got the top/bottom thing kind of wrong when it comes to guys. Just because you top or bottom it doesn't necessarily (and it usually doesn't) have any associations to domination, submission or power exchange in general.

But I just double checked the first page of this thread and realized you meant top/bottom specifically as dom/sub.

Oops :3

[jorjo]

Originally Posted by madeyeshawn

Problem is the ones worth having are not affordable and we have never socialized or networked amongst the kink community in Chicago.

Based on the posts you've made I'm rather stunned you're not active in the BDSM community and also that you weren't already on fetlife I'd say probably 98% of my social life involves fellow kinksters - munches, parties, workshops, movies, coffee ... I'd practically be a shut in if I removed my kinky friends from my life.

I assume you know about kink.com? And check youtube for some instructional videos on rope ties etc - and get involved in the local community - not only for a domme to top you both, but I'm sure you'll find someone to give you info on rope ties etc. The basics are damn easy but there are a few safety things to be aware of.

oh ... and sub for sure. I've topped a couple of times but really it's more for a laugh whereas subbing just feels so damn right. I love rope and needles and breath play and sharp pointy things and blood and wax and restraints and ... well goddamn ... just so freakn much

[AronSora]

This is an awkward question, but how does one get started with CBT, I have extreme ideas but I don't want to hurt myself...any tips

[picard102]

Originally Posted by AronSora

This is an awkward question, but how does one get started with CBT, I have extreme ideas but I don't want to hurt myself...any tips

What sort of extreme ideas?

You can find tutorial DVD's at some porn stores. But you might be able to find something online for free.

Honestly, you don't really want to go too crazy and dive right in. Get used to some hand slapping and squeezing before going into vices, ropes, and needles. You need to work your way into more intense pain rather then starting off right away with ball crushing. It's also a good idea to find someone who's done it before to walk you through it.

I'll suggest Fetlife again for you, check out the people in you're area, and some of the events. Chances are there will be some workshops about topics like CBT, and if not, you'll be able to connect to people who can put on such workshops. Though, someone in your club at school must have an idea.

Does you're school group participate in the larger kink community, or just do it's own thing?

[AronSora]

Based on the one meeting I went to, anyone if free to go to the meeting and they promote outside events. They also have a few deals with stores.

Edit: Vices and Sounding

[marina]

Originally Posted by AronSora

Based on the one meeting I went to, anyone if free to go to the meeting and they promote outside events. They also have a few deals with stores.

Edit: Vices and Sounding

Sounding isn't that extreme. At least in my book. Maybe I'm a weirdo. I'm probably a weirdo.

Originally Posted by madeyeshawn

This poll is not boding well for all the male submissives. Lets all get in line behind Marina.

[AronSora]

Let me clarify:

metalworking vice