Question about gay dating?

[phooey]

Originally Posted by CuriousKlepto

I’m very new to dating and I need to know. When should I tell a guy that I’ve never done anything with another guy before? On my very first date the guy totally freaked out cause I told him the total truth when he asked what kind of other guys I had dated. He got really weird when I told him he was the first gay guy I had ever met, and never called me back. What should say next time? And I just wanna be clear, He asked the question, It’s not like he said "You Thirsty?" and I screamed out "I’M A VIRGIN!" He wanted something and I just said how I didn’t think he was going to get it, from me, that night.

why do you think you are gay? Let's try an experiment.

Now first, if you are gay, that's just fine, but here is the thing... find yourself a really nice girl that will go down on you, put on your finest KATG shirt... it's a Wednesday and she decides to help you out..

then the following week... do the same, this time with the guy above... tell him what the KATG shirt means and that it is Wednesday and well.. you know.. fill in the rest.


just a little experiment... nothing more...

I am guessing that there is more to this story. Just sayin.

[marina]

Originally Posted by phooey

why do you think you are gay? Let's try an experiment.

Now first, if you are gay, that's just fine, but here is the thing... find yourself a really nice girl that will go down on you, put on your finest KATG shirt... it's a Wednesday and she decides to help you out..

then the following week... do the same, this time with the guy above... tell him what the KATG shirt means and that it is Wednesday and well.. you know.. fill in the rest.


just a little experiment... nothing more...

I am guessing that there is more to this story. Just sayin.

Is that how you figured out that you like girls?

[CuriousKlepto]

I've only ever been in one situation where a girl was gonna do stuff to me but, I was not interested in any way. Girls just don't do anything for me. I've only ever thought about guys. Not once have I ever wanted to seriously sleep with a girl.

[phooey]

Originally Posted by CuriousKlepto

I've only ever been in one situation where a girl was gonna do stuff to me but, I was not interested in any way. Girls just don't do anything for me. I've only ever thought about guys. Not once have I ever wanted to seriously sleep with a girl.

Ok, then damn with that experiment and please accept my apologies for being insensitive.

I will say that I understand where you are coming from, because after my first marriage where I hadn't been with anyone else by my ex wife, it was strange when I first started dating again, and there was this one girl that was really nice and when it came time to take it to another level, I just wasn't all that interested. I wasn't really that sexually attracted to her.. eventually i found what I was looking for and 'game on' as they say in Canada...

so, you know, you are 20 years old, just take it easy, and I do sincerely apologize for being an ass, just take your time and when you feel right it will be right. It's your life, and you really don't need advice, you'll be fine.

[Mikey]

so you have never dated a girl, well have you tried? do you have a lot of girl friends?

[marina]

Originally Posted by Mikey

so you have never dated a girl, well have you tried? do you have a lot of girl friends?

Why do you want this boy to fuck a girl so bad?

[tga]

Originally Posted by marina

Why do you want this boy to fuck a girl so bad?

Though, I do wonder whether Mickey is being for real but I think a lot of heterosexual men still think, in this day and age, that noone is actually born gay like they are born straight. When you go back to them and ask why they have never tried to date a guy, they are usual repulsed by the idea - not realizing that it's effectively asking a gay person the same question and it's them have a the same reaction.

When people stop realizing that being gay is not a choice, then the world will be a more tolerant place.

[Mikey]

Originally Posted by tga

Though, I do wonder whether Mickey is being for real but I think a lot of heterosexual men still think, in this day and age, that noone is actually born gay like they are born straight. When you go back to them and ask why they have never tried to date a guy, they are usual repulsed by the idea - not realizing that it's effectively asking a gay person the same question and it's them have a the same reaction.

When people stop realizing that being gay is not a choice, then the world will be a more tolerant place.

why pick on me and not phooey?

All i asked is if he had any girl friends.

[tga]

Originally Posted by Mikey

why pick on me and not phooey?

All i asked is if he had any girl friends.

I just saw your comment. I'll have a go at phooey later if it's that important to you! :-)

[CuriousKlepto]

Y'all need to calm down. I'm not offended that he asked a question. He didn't know. I grew up being the only minority in town, so I'm used to people saying things to/about me and asking weird questions. but I've been gay from the get, I even have pics of me at five curtsying and being all flamey. It's actually a surprise to me that I have to tell people.