Question about gay dating?

[CuriousKlepto]

I've only ever been in one situation where a girl was gonna do stuff to me but, I was not interested in any way. Girls just don't do anything for me. I've only ever thought about guys. Not once have I ever wanted to seriously sleep with a girl.

[phooey]

Originally Posted by CuriousKlepto

I've only ever been in one situation where a girl was gonna do stuff to me but, I was not interested in any way. Girls just don't do anything for me. I've only ever thought about guys. Not once have I ever wanted to seriously sleep with a girl.

Ok, then damn with that experiment and please accept my apologies for being insensitive.

I will say that I understand where you are coming from, because after my first marriage where I hadn't been with anyone else by my ex wife, it was strange when I first started dating again, and there was this one girl that was really nice and when it came time to take it to another level, I just wasn't all that interested. I wasn't really that sexually attracted to her.. eventually i found what I was looking for and 'game on' as they say in Canada...

so, you know, you are 20 years old, just take it easy, and I do sincerely apologize for being an ass, just take your time and when you feel right it will be right. It's your life, and you really don't need advice, you'll be fine.

[Mikey]

so you have never dated a girl, well have you tried? do you have a lot of girl friends?

[marina]

Originally Posted by Mikey

so you have never dated a girl, well have you tried? do you have a lot of girl friends?

Why do you want this boy to fuck a girl so bad?

[tga]

Originally Posted by marina

Why do you want this boy to fuck a girl so bad?

Though, I do wonder whether Mickey is being for real but I think a lot of heterosexual men still think, in this day and age, that noone is actually born gay like they are born straight. When you go back to them and ask why they have never tried to date a guy, they are usual repulsed by the idea - not realizing that it's effectively asking a gay person the same question and it's them have a the same reaction.

When people stop realizing that being gay is not a choice, then the world will be a more tolerant place.

[Mikey]

Originally Posted by marina

Why do you want this boy to fuck a girl so bad?

where did I say I wanted him to make love to a woman "so bad"

btw, unrelated.... are you a liberal?

[Mikey]

Originally Posted by tga

Though, I do wonder whether Mickey is being for real but I think a lot of heterosexual men still think, in this day and age, that noone is actually born gay like they are born straight. When you go back to them and ask why they have never tried to date a guy, they are usual repulsed by the idea - not realizing that it's effectively asking a gay person the same question and it's them have a the same reaction.

When people stop realizing that being gay is not a choice, then the world will be a more tolerant place.

why pick on me and not phooey?

All i asked is if he had any girl friends.

[tga]

Originally Posted by Mikey

why pick on me and not phooey?

All i asked is if he had any girl friends.

I just saw your comment. I'll have a go at phooey later if it's that important to you! :-)

[CuriousKlepto]

Y'all need to calm down. I'm not offended that he asked a question. He didn't know. I grew up being the only minority in town, so I'm used to people saying things to/about me and asking weird questions. but I've been gay from the get, I even have pics of me at five curtsying and being all flamey. It's actually a surprise to me that I have to tell people.

[phooey]

I guess the reason that Mikey has some doubts is probably because guys that know gays know that they are gay because they probably like to or want to have sex with other guys.

So... when someone says that they are nervous about that part of being gay, it does just sound weird, you know? but then, I had to go back and think.. let's pretend this entire conversation was...

a Girl that is a virgin that is 20 years old and likes a guy a lot but just isn't ready for sex..

and... to that end.. mr. klepto is just normal and as a straight guy I really can't give advice to him, but I am sure that being gay will cause more problems, and he'll just have to find the right person.

Klepto doesn't have to prove that he is gay...