Question about gay dating?

[notedhero]

Originally Posted by andyoureuglytoo

Uh...Marina's right. You need help. More than we can offer.

Get some.

I used to be a cutter too.

Know what made me stop?

I realized how stupid it was and what a douche I was being.

Originally Posted by marina

Yeah... I was a cutter for while. It stopped when I started working the steps so... unless you have one of those type of problems I can't help with any advice.

Hm, what another weird minority i seem to be in.

[marina]

Originally Posted by notedhero

Hm, what another weird minority i seem to be in.

Most of my female and gay male friends are in the same category. Personally, I think it has to do with rage, aggression and the ineffectual avenues that we have to express those emotions due to the perception of us collective as a weak population.

[notedhero]

Originally Posted by marina

Most of my female and gay male friends are in the same category. Personally, I think it has to do with rage, aggression and the ineffectual avenues that we have to express those emotions due to the perception of us collective as a weak population.

Well I definitely understand that...however I choose repression and sex (when I can) to cope. Sometimes I will just spend a couple of hours while I lie awake trying to psychoanalyze myself.

[CuriousKlepto]

No, I've been pretty good. I haven't cut in over a year. I learned better ways to feel things(not drugs). It's just that when I'm alone I feel like I can't feel anything anymore. I've just been neglected my whole life, I was forced to be alone. My mom was really strict and if I ever had a problem she would just throw money at it so now I have no people skills and can't find real life friends. Okay, enough of this downer stuff, let's talk about something nicer. What are everyone's Thanksgiving plans?

[notedhero]

I'm going to try to make tiramisu! Hoping it won't be an epic fail.

[marina]

Dr. Boyfriend and I are going out to dinner at a place called The Stinking Rose. We went to the one in San Francisco and it was awesome. Hopefully the one in LA will be good too.

[Abacus]

I just discovered this thread, and my word, you are all fagools. O_Q

[John Galt]

Originally Posted by marina

Dr. Boyfriend and I are going out to dinner at a place called The Stinking Rose. We went to the one in San Francisco and it was awesome. Hopefully the one in LA will be good too.

I went to the one in SF back in the 90's ... they were giving away garlic flavored condoms. Epic.