Roadblocks

[ooda]

Originally Posted by the big lebowski

i side w/ the acting adult way. mostly, it's your girlfriend's problem. since she's the one being harrassed, then she'll have to file the complaint. you can be there for her and help her out emotionally, etc. and, should the guy ever show up, then you can do your manly thing of intimidation or whatever. but i wouldn't go the way of actively seeking him out to confront.

Plus when you later do go to authorities, they will be more inclined to be on your side if they see you tried to deal with it in a rational manner.

[Josh]

Gather a lot of shit in a box.

Dress up like a delivery guy.

Hand deliver it too his place.

Make him sign for it.

As he's signing for it, put a bag over his head and get him on the ground. Cuff his hands, and feet. Then start rubbing shit everywhere you can think of in his place. His DVD player, TV, books, Walls. Just everywhere.

Then take a good handful of shit and stuff it down the back of his pants.

Gather all your stuff and get the hell out of there

If he calls the cops he'll just look crazy, because of the shit in his pants.



....or just mail him glitter every week

[the big lebowski]

i guess i stand corrected on my reasoning.

[william]

Originally Posted by the big lebowski

i side w/ the acting adult way. mostly, it's your girlfriend's problem...

Agreed. File a complaint. Leverage Caller-ID. Don't attack him. You may wind up being the one brought up on charges. Not even getting a friend to do it is smart.

"*BANG* Leave such and such alone" ties any beating directly back to your girl. I doubt she wants a police investigation where she's considered the perp. Have her file the complaint. Have her tell him about it.

Scary stuff, though. Obsessed guys like him are capable of pulling irrational stunts.

[Josh]

Originally Posted by william

Scary stuff, though. Obsessed guys like him are capable of pulling irrational stunts.

But for the most part he'll just lose interest in your gf once he finds some other girl to bother

[slugymay]

I say to cut your girlfriends face, he won't want her then.

Right?

Right?

Who's with me?

[jwdd27]

Lol Slugy, you've solved it!

Re: police investigation - The guy in my case certainly knew better than to go to the police.
What does he say? "I got beat up by four unknown guys for harassing my ex" The police aren't gonna be interested in that.
Plus the girl in my case knew nothing about the attack, as far as she was concerned the harassment just stopped.

[toddhacker]

I don't think she'll be down with the cutting of the face. But maybe I can cover her in glitter while she sleeps.

[william]

She could always tell him she had to break up with him because she'd decided to become a man. A week later you can answer the phone:

"Hello. Yea. The testosterone has kicked in."

[slugymay]

Originally Posted by william

She could always tell him she had to break up with him because she'd decided to become a man. A week later you can answer the phone:

"Hello. Yea. The testosterone has kicked in."

lol. "yeah, we can still date if you want, all my friends thought you were gay anyways"