Sex on a lunch date?

Lord of the Cock Rings · 11-30-2008, 01:55 AM

So, I'm meeting a chick for a lunch date tomorrow. We've already had sex, the third and fifth time we met each other. Neither one of those were really dates though, just outings with mutual friends.

She asked to meet for lunch on Sunday and I'm not sure if that means she's trying to scale things back a little cuz she might be interested in LTR. Or if it's just the only time she has open [she lives 55 mi away and has a really stressful, high hours job] Would it be a faux pas to ask her back to my place for some sex after just lunch?

Bebe · 11-30-2008, 01:59 AM

I say go for it. What do you have to lose

marina · 11-30-2008, 02:21 AM

I'd say that depends on how the lunch date goes. If she wants to have a lunch date, she may want to have a talk to figure out where you're doing together and to see where you both stand.

Bucho · 11-30-2008, 03:09 AM

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Originally Posted by marina

I'd say that depends on how the lunch date goes. If she wants to have a lunch date, she may want to have a talk to figure out where you're doing together and to see where you both stand.

Yeah dude, you just need to go with the flow on this one, since you've already gotten intimate a couple of times it sholdn't be too hard to read the signals. And like Churchill famously said, "If in doubt, neg the shit out of her".

jmac · 11-30-2008, 04:16 AM

Oh I totally meant to vote no...I just read the thread as "sex on a lunch date?" and automatically voted "yes". Go for it.

motownguy · 11-30-2008, 09:05 AM

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Originally Posted by jmac

Oh I totally meant to vote no...I just read the thread as "sex on a lunch date?" and automatically voted "yes". Go for it.

I had to do a double take on the poll too. See, for some of us old married types, coming home for lunch is more of a euphamism. Then again, sometimes it involves a turkey sammich.

phooey · 11-30-2008, 09:08 AM

My guess is, she is trying to decide if she likes you well enough to have sex with you again.. so she has picked the ole "lunch date" so that she can get to know you better, if you treat her like a sex object and just push for sex, my guess is she will push you away and it will be done.

go with the flow, be witty, charming, funny, keep her smiling, and don't ask for anything, play a little hard to get, and then the next time you have plenty of time to have some fun. I would say that the lunchtime quickie something for when you have a relationship together and you both know that without words. "lunch" doesn't mean mcdonalds anymore.

if you know what I mean.

so. just charm the shit out of her... and ask to see her that night.

punk'n · 11-30-2008, 09:10 AM

I say go for it. But I'm a who-are.

roxymodest · 11-30-2008, 10:00 AM

don't force the issue...

but yeah, if it happens, great.
if not, then expect another good lunch date. hopefully.

notedhero · 11-30-2008, 01:20 PM

My guess is that the sex is so good she wants to try to make it a relationship so that:

1. She doesn't feel like a whore.
2. She gets good sex and a relationship. (two birds)

So I say play it cool, don't necessarily expect sex. You may get a girlfriend to have regular sex with. Or just a fuckbuddy. Who knows!

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Lord of the Cock Rings Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: an island in flyover country Posts: 1,166	Sex on a lunch date? So, I'm meeting a chick for a lunch date tomorrow. We've already had sex, the third and fifth time we met each other. Neither one of those were really dates though, just outings with mutual friends. She asked to meet for lunch on Sunday and I'm not sure if that means she's trying to scale things back a little cuz she might be interested in LTR. Or if it's just the only time she has open [she lives 55 mi away and has a really stressful, high hours job] Would it be a faux pas to ask her back to my place for some sex after just lunch? __________________ "I understand I'm punchin a guy in his sleep, but that's when I have* to punch him"* -- Keet #839 "I'll Judge you all day. It's why I woke up"--Patrice #796 "Tell me there's peppers and I'll gut myself like a Japanese"--Keet #671 "I yell, I make kids cry. I get into it" --Keet #590 "HOLLA at 'cha LORRRD!"--Adam Brown
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11-30-2008, 01:59 AM	#2 (permalink)
Bebe Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Christchurch, New Zealand Posts: 4,506	I say go for it. What do you have to lose
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marina Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: I live in Southern California. Posts: 2,188	I'd say that depends on how the lunch date goes. If she wants to have a lunch date, she may want to have a talk to figure out where you're doing together and to see where you both stand.
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jmac Senior Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: tulsa Posts: 216	Oh I totally meant to vote no...I just read the thread as "sex on a lunch date?" and automatically voted "yes". Go for it.
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11-30-2008, 09:08 AM	#7 (permalink)
phooey Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Tulsa, OK lahoma Posts: 1,219	My guess is, she is trying to decide if she likes you well enough to have sex with you again.. so she has picked the ole "lunch date" so that she can get to know you better, if you treat her like a sex object and just push for sex, my guess is she will push you away and it will be done. go with the flow, be witty, charming, funny, keep her smiling, and don't ask for anything, play a little hard to get, and then the next time you have plenty of time to have some fun. I would say that the lunchtime quickie something for when you have a relationship together and you both know that without words. "lunch" doesn't mean mcdonalds anymore. if you know what I mean. so. just charm the shit out of her... and ask to see her that night. __________________
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11-30-2008, 09:10 AM	#8 (permalink)
punk'n Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Kansas City, MO Posts: 402	I say go for it. But I'm a who-are.
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11-30-2008, 10:00 AM	#9 (permalink)
roxymodest Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Manila, Philippines (y'know the south of Spain) Posts: 609	don't force the issue... but yeah, if it happens, great. if not, then expect another good lunch date. hopefully.
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11-30-2008, 01:20 PM	#10 (permalink)
notedhero Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: GA Posts: 83	My guess is that the sex is so good she wants to try to make it a relationship so that: 1. She doesn't feel like a whore. 2. She gets good sex and a relationship. (two birds) So I say play it cool, don't necessarily expect sex. You may get a girlfriend to have regular sex with. Or just a fuckbuddy. Who knows!
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