Sex on a lunch date?

[Bebe]

Originally Posted by marina

How so?

I wonder if he means that low maintenance is clingy or needy, and people-pleasing.

High maintenance could mean that women don't take any bullshit and get what they want.

Or maybe just that they are whiny and want their own way all the time.

[marina]

Originally Posted by Bebe

I wonder if he means that low maintenance is clingy or needy, and people-pleasing.

High maintenance could mean that women don't take any bullshit and get what they want.

Or maybe just that they are whiny and want their own way all the time.

I always thought that a high maintenance woman was one who needs a lot of attention and doting over, wants to be taken out and have someone else pay for it, wants flowers, romantic shit all the time and has to be the center of attention.

I suppose that if you get too low maintenance of a woman, she does everything for her partner, expecting nothing in return. She makes food, cleans, pays for shit, never minds if she doesn't cum during sex. I suppose that might be nice for a little bit, but after awhile it's like having a slave. Although I was always under the impression that most guys would want this-it's a rather accurate portrayal of my grandparents relationship, but that any self-respecting woman shouldn't put up with that shit.

[roxymodest]

Originally Posted by marina

I always thought that a high maintenance woman was one who needs a lot of attention and doting over, wants to be taken out and have someone else pay for it, wants flowers, romantic shit all the time and has to be the center of attention.

I suppose that if you get too low maintenance of a woman, she does everything for her partner, expecting nothing in return. She makes food, cleans, pays for shit, never minds if she doesn't cum during sex. I suppose that might be nice for a little bit, but after awhile it's like having a slave. Although I was always under the impression that most guys would want this-it's a rather accurate portrayal of my grandparents relationship, but that any self-respecting woman shouldn't put up with that shit.

find the balance of maintenance, i guess.

be cool, lord of the cock rings, be cool. who knows where it'll go? but yeah waaay too much drama attached so...hm. up to you.

[lebowski]

Originally Posted by Bebe

I wonder if he means that low maintenance is clingy or needy, and people-pleasing.

High maintenance could mean that women don't take any bullshit and get what they want.

Or maybe just that they are whiny and want their own way all the time.

clingy and needy is not low maintenance!

its the highest form of maintenance ever, this I know!!!

[notedhero]

Originally Posted by marina

I suppose that if you get too low maintenance of a woman, she does everything for her partner, expecting nothing in return. She makes food, cleans, pays for shit, never minds if she doesn't cum during sex. I suppose that might be nice for a little bit, but after awhile it's like having a slave. Although I was always under the impression that most guys would want this-it's a rather accurate portrayal of my grandparents relationship, but that any self-respecting woman shouldn't put up with that shit.

I agree with this definition...to me low maintenence denotes an equal level of a lack of self-esteem that high maintenence has. No one is that unselfish if they're well adjusted.

[marina]

Originally Posted by notedhero

I agree with this definition...to me low maintenence denotes an equal level of a lack of self-esteem that high maintenence has. No one is that unselfish if they're well adjusted.

Agreed. Also, this leads to a weird sort of high maintenance-ness because any person that is that giving to their mate probably won't have much else going on in their life and will seek constant validation from them.

[djoh615893]

Be casual on this one.

[serial_x]

Go for it.

That's all i have to offer.