Should I Be Worried? Girl With Guy Friends

[DWarrior]

Originally Posted by Scat

So things are going really well between me and the gf. Things have taken a turn for the worse for her and her friend. They've been living together for less than a month and they've already reached a point where they haven't talked in days. Apparently he hasn't been helping at all around the house, and today she noticed he went through half a bottle of her vodka while she was out. Now she wants to put a lock on her bedroom door.

In my opinion, he's realized at this point that she's with me and has thus given up on all the niceties. Or he's just a terrible roommate. Either way she doesn't even want to be home when he's there, and she still has to work with him too. I feel bad for my gf, but I can't say I'm surprised. Not sure how things will shake out from here, I'm just going to support her through it.

Is she aware of why the other guy is doing this? Or is she still deluded into thinking he wanted to be her friend?

[Scat]

Originally Posted by DWarrior

Is she aware of why the other guy is doing this? Or is she still deluded into thinking he wanted to be her friend?

I'm not even going to ask. The last thing she wants to hear is 'I told you so'.

[campy]

Originally Posted by Scat

I'm not even going to ask. The last thing she wants to hear is 'I told you so'.

Keen observation...you learn fast

[Scat]

Originally Posted by campy

Keen observation...you learn fast

Thanks Campy!

Now she's staying at her dad's place for who knows how long. This shit blew up really fast. She wasn't even done unpacking all her stuff yet.