so wait standarman dumped YOU??

I will maintain that anyone who ever cheats in any way, shape, or form, no matter how minor you think it is, needs to be castrated by whatever means necessary.

That's pretty ridiculous. Morality is a facade, it doesn't really mean anything more than you choose it to. Someone who disagrees with your personal code is not necessarily wrong.
When it comes to moral questons there is no right or wrong.

Morality isn't hazy when it comes to cheating. If you choose to be with someone, you accept the cultural standard to be monogamous. If anything, you accept that the other person assumes you're with them and only them.
Unless you make it an "open" relationship from the get-go, it's impossible to not see what you're doing is at least a bit wrong when cheating.

I can tell from your post that you've cheated, and are performing what Trey Parker would call "mental gymnastics" to convince yourself it wasn't a big deal.

Sorry, she has since deleted her Myspace.

I shouldn't have said anything, this is going to really get off topic.

Dear Twitchy,

What I'm saying is, that is a restriction you have put on yourself. That's all morality is, something for whatever reason (societal, religious, etc.) you are deciding is right or wrong. Just because you or a group decided it, doesn't make it so. It's not a logical question where there is only 1 absolute answer like in math.

Is murder wrong? Maybe, depends on the situation and the moral code you prescribe to. Maybe other people disagree in certain situations. No correct answer.

PS
I like how you jump to the conclusion that I am a "cheater". No, I have never done what you consider cheating to be.

qft

She was leaving the country and we had a huge arguement. The plan was to have breakup sex and if she ever came back we would talk about being together again but, a week before all that business we had a huge nothing arguement mostly because I can't speak spanish when I am angry and she can't speak english when she is, put a nothing fight and a language barrier in between and you get no bye bye sex

Dear Weirdo:

I didn't doubt any of that. I'm saying that if you choose to free yourself of such restrictions, make sure your partner has as well.

My dick was TOO big.