[bofadeeznizzles]

You have to go with your gut, but not "if you want to fuck, fuck." Sometimes you can tell that someone really likes who you are. In that case, I only see upside. But I've had a gal sleep with me on the first date. It turned into a scenario for me where I liked hanging out with her and then fucking. It didn't occur to me for a LONG time that she actually really liked me and wanted a relationship. I guess sometimes dudes are dumb and if it isn't obvious that you're fucking him b/c you have some real feelings, he might think he just found a new booty call. And sometimes a gal just needs a new booty call! Bah fuck, I forgot what I was saying....