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I'm on the hold it for now band wagon.
If you want to play the "game" I feel that most people like to chase the carrot a bit. It's elongated foreplay.
Without any "game" thinking, it takes time to figure a person out. If your intention is more then a one off thing or a fuck buddy situation you may want to investigate this other soul a bit before you hand him all the goodies.
I had done the deed on the first date and usually didn't get very far. THere were times when I didn't, they expected it and never called again. The ones that really lasted were the ones that invested time in getting to know me first and didn't expect it on the first date. If it would have happened it wouldn't have scared them off because the intent to make a go of it was there from the beginning.
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