Thats a thread stopper. So it sounds like you know its something in your head. If it is consider that you might be trying to impress your girl too much. Focusing on her pleasure much more than your own.
From personal experience it takes longer to cum the more attractive the woman is to me. Because I care what she thinks and what she wants. I dont want to come off as a tool and I want to make her happy. Those that I dont care about I cum right away with. It doesnt matter. I may never see her again and who gives a fuck anyway. The reason for that disparity didnt become appearant until recently. Hopefully this leads you in the right direction.
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