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Hey I thought I'd come to you guys for advice on this one. I've been seeing a girl for a couple months but there's been something nagging me in the back of my mind. She's told me she only has guy friends because girls are "catty", okay fine. I thought it was a bit weird to dismiss an entire gender but she does have interests that line up more with guys (e.g. video games) so fair enough.

But there's this one guy in her life that makes me uneasy. She goes to concerts with him and has a movie night with him every week. She's about to move into a place with him and be room-mates with him. He got her a job where he works so she'll be working full-time with him. They're going to go to the gym together, eat meals together, basically see each-other all the time.

Am I nuts or is this too much? Unfortunately with my schedule I can only see her a couple times a week, although we stay in contact through the phone everyday. But I feel like inevitably something is going to happen between these two. I can't in good conscience ask her not to move in with him or start working with him, so what should I do?

I'll be meeting him in a couple weeks time probably when she moves in with him. Should I say anything to him?