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Originally Posted by Sparrow
Sounds like they have a lot of history together. If you want to know, ask. Carve out a specific time to sit with no distractions, let her know you're feeling threatened. Coming from a point of honesty and humility will do more than "you spend too much with so-and-so!!!" which is accusatory and straightaway puts her in a defensive position.
Speculating in this thread will only give you anxiety about it.
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No they haven't known each other that long, I'd have to ask her but I'm pretty sure it's been less than a year. She just added him on facebook last week.
Thanks for the good advice guys, you're right. I'm seeing her today, not sure if to bring it up with her now or wait until I meet the guy. I figure if it's on my mind so much I should just talk about it now, otherwise it will just poison everything I do with her.