For what it’s worth, Reddit can be very anonymous. You can make an account without even putting in an email. And it seems like she made a “throwaway” account to post this. I guess you could figure out who they are if you know your 32 year old friend just got married to a 27 year old. But that cannot be rare enough to not have plausible deniability if your friends suspected it was you.
And I do think it sounded more like she was asking if she should feel deceived, rather than trying to shame. It was posted specifically in a section called “am I the asshole” which I thinks adds a small amount of context.
I mean who knows, it could all be a lie!
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