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Old 12-04-2019, 05:04 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Apia View Post
Very specific expectations = unhappiness
Agreed

Setting up a very specific list of requirements - I wouldn't do that myself but it's perfectly fine and sounds like it's supposed to take pressure away from your partner so that's lovely.

Having a secret additional requirement that your loving partner should just magically know is also the key ingredient for your happiness? That feels a little bit like trying to trick or set the partner up for failure.

I understand it's hard trusting after what you went through Chemda but you got a good dude now - I know this is probably played up for comedic effect but pretty please - chill if this is a 'first offense' I'm sure you are well versed to explain this better than it came across here.
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