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Old 04-04-2021, 03:53 PM   #18 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Apia resurrected View Post
When Iím at work at talk to customers and others the big majority of the time I donít care what they look like. But sometimes, sometimes someone is so attractive that Iím annoyed by it. It happens not often at all, maybe once in two years or so.
And only if I see them for the first time, the next time Iím mentally prepared.

And thatís why. Iím alone in a room with this person and we talk about some medical study. I notice how pretty they are and am less focused.
Im not like the guy in the scenario, because I can get over it but it takes work.
The worst are those who know exactly how attractive they are. We talk, and I see in their eyes that they notice that I just noticed how pretty they are.
I donít like it at all, because for a moment I am not focused on work.

When I see that person again, I know what to expect and they donít have the same effect on me.
So I get wanting to see a less attractive sales person. The customer here doesnít have great social skills and hasnít learned yet how to control himself in these situations and knows it.
I also work in "sales". I work at a steak house/ wine bar where our most expensive bottle is $10,000. I'm trying to sell nice bottles to get good tips. It's happened so many times that I make a recommendation and the table will ask to talk to the "wine guy". So I send over someone with a penis to make my sale.

I know it's a different scenario but I feel for the woman in this sitch .
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