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So I’m at the part with the Pat audio and I have to say as soon as he said “I see” it just sounded so fucking evil.
Also the people who have a problem with someone recording without the other person knowing will also be the ones shouting that there’s no proof. There’s no way to win with those jackasses.
Also-the body has 3 different fight responses that are AUTOMATIC meaning people often do NOT HAVE CONTROL of how they respond to a situation like this- Fight, flee, freeze. It makes total sense that Felicia would freeze.
God I’m so sorry you went through this Felicia. I had tears down my face when you talked about sleeping on the living room floor on a mat. I’ve been so mad at my husband but if I found out he was sleeping on the floor unwillingly I wouldn’t allow it. I have children and I would never punish them in that way. My husband is an artist and as mad as I’ve been with him I would never destroy his art. I say this as someone with significant childhood trauma to the point I’ve been diagnosed with PTSD and a big reason why I have such low self worth. Frankly even people who have never been abused can find themselves in this situation because no one wants to believe that they would fall in love with someone who would do this to them. And when you are constantly being bombarded with messages like “you are such a piece of shit and everyone around you can see it too”. He was acting like he was a saint for staying with you when frankly if he really believed his bullshit he could have left. He could have left the room himself instead of smashing her to the bed. I hate that she feels like she has to justify herself but some of the comments made by those jackasses in chat is the reason why DV victims feel like they have to justify it.
It is always hard for victims to go public. It very rarely goes well. Felicia is brave for coming on TWICE and re-living some super hard moments.
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