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dannyhatch 10-04-2015 03:59 PM

2254: Reinventing the Wheel
 
with Chrissie Mayr – Foot modeling; Craigslist massage ads; KATG in Albuquerque; teachers vs. students; Sicario review; 3 new Bill Cosby victims; Chrissie’s ex Pat Dixon and new love Frank Pellegrino; Chet Haze out of rehab, anti-N-word

Guest:
Chrissie Mayr
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More on KATG's problems with Pat Dixon


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Dean from Australia 10-04-2015 08:09 PM

Great, great episode guys and I really enjoyed listening to Chrissie.

One thing that scared me though was at minute 43:16 Chemda posed the question "he didn't beat you?"

Chrissie kinda dodged it. I really hope that this was the case - that he didn't beat her.

If he did beat her, I think a lynching is in order.

I'm listening to Pat's bit now - mother fuck, that I even had any doubt.

Jesus Wept.

Scumhook 10-04-2015 08:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Dean from Australia (Post 848438)
Jesus Wept.

Allegorically or Historically wept?

ldyminerva 10-05-2015 08:05 AM

I don't get the sociopath vibe....I get the narcissist vibe from him...but than again I just came to the realization that my dad is a narcissist and stop talking to him....you think it's fucked up to date one....try growing up thinking this behavior is normal...having nothing else to compare it too!

But that's my pain...this is hers and i don't want to invalidate it, Cuz it's so real and painful!

Sparrow 10-05-2015 08:26 AM

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Originally Posted by ldyminerva (Post 848447)
I don't get the sociopath vibe....I get the narcissist vibe from him...but than again I just came to the realization that my dad is a narcissist and stop talking to him....you think it's fucked up to date one....try growing up thinking this behavior is normal...having nothing else to compare it too!

https://www.reddit.com/r/RaisedByNarcissists

here's a group you might be interested in reading through. both my parents are great, but i myself probably shouldn't have kids. this is a helpful reminder why when i get the baby fevers.

littlp 10-05-2015 08:29 AM

Shame on me for not writing Pat off when hearing him first spout that ridiculous bullshit about forcing Chrissy to get rid of family and friends. That is so abusive and fucked up. Fuck him.


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FingerLakes 10-05-2015 08:35 AM

I'm with Keith, when my friends tell me "I feel so bad cuz I hooked up with this girl at a party even thought I'm dating Kristin" I'm like "you fucked some girl at a party?!?!" and they're all upset "Nooo! We just kinda kissed a little" I roll my eyes so hard. Hook up should only mean things were hooked into other things, fingers or tongues or penises into holes

Eric M 10-05-2015 11:07 AM

Chet haze really needs to look into getting Keith as his full time hype man.

flerchin 10-05-2015 09:45 PM

This felt like some 6th sense go back and relisten to everything now that the plot twist has been revealed shit. I remember nodding along with Pat 2 years ago. Now it feels so painfully obvious what a psychopath he is.

violachick8 10-06-2015 09:50 AM

Pat Dixon seems to be a Domestic Violence Perpetrator
 
I am listening to the episode where you had Pat Dixon's ex girlfriend on and I am going BANANAS. The discussion that you had with Chrissie Mayr was so textbook domestic violence and I am an hour into it and I HAD TO stop because it was frustrating for me. It sounds as if Pat didn't physically hit Chrissie (or at least she didn't choose to share that information on air) but he engaged in EVERY OTHER type of domestic violence possible. He controlled her schedule, who she could talk to, and by expecting her to stay up all night what job she had. He tricked her into thinking that it was all her fault and that she was the one who was the problem. Hearing that they engaged in couple's therapy got me so ANGRY because ANY therapist worth their salt should be able to see how this is a domestic violence situation.
I know this seems very random and slanderous to say all this. It only seems that way based on the anecdotes that Chrissie shared and Pat's own words from the show he was previously on. I'm in a doctoral program in psychology and run groups for domestic violence perpetrators that they have to attend as part of their parole/probation. The goal with the groups is to get them to change the way they look at the world/their relationships so they don't abuse another partner. If I stuck Pat into one of those groups he would agree with EVERY SINGLE HORRIBLE COMMENT that the group members said. I share my "qualifications" or whatever because I wanted you to get that I'm not some random person just deciding to think this. I really think that what he did to Chrissie constitutes abuse and is horribly wrong. I hope that Chrissie gets a new therapist that does not try to blame her for her partner's actions. I wanted to email her but did not know about the appropriateness of just sending this out of the blue. I hope that sharing my opinion would ultimately do good not harm to Chrissie and other potential partners of Pat's.
I hope this was clear as I am pretty upset from listening to the podcast.

Dean from Australia 10-06-2015 10:12 AM

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Originally Posted by violachick8 (Post 848481)
I am listening to the episode where you had Pat Dixon's ex girlfriend on and I am going BANANAS. The discussion that you had with Chrissie Mayr was so textbook domestic violence and I am an hour into it and I HAD TO stop because it was frustrating for me. It sounds as if Pat didn't physically hit Chrissie (or at least she didn't choose to share that information on air) but he engaged in EVERY OTHER type of domestic violence possible. He controlled her schedule, who she could talk to, and by expecting her to stay up all night what job she had. He tricked her into thinking that it was all her fault and that she was the one who was the problem. Hearing that they engaged in couple's therapy got me so ANGRY because ANY therapist worth their salt should be able to see how this is a domestic violence situation.
I know this seems very random and slanderous to say all this. It only seems that way based on the anecdotes that Chrissie shared and Pat's own words from the show he was previously on. I'm in a doctoral program in psychology and run groups for domestic violence perpetrators that they have to attend as part of their parole/probation. The goal with the groups is to get them to change the way they look at the world/their relationships so they don't abuse another partner. If I stuck Pat into one of those groups he would agree with EVERY SINGLE HORRIBLE COMMENT that the group members said. I share my "qualifications" or whatever because I wanted you to get that I'm not some random person just deciding to think this. I really think that what he did to Chrissie constitutes abuse and is horribly wrong. I hope that Chrissie gets a new therapist that does not try to blame her for her partner's actions. I wanted to email her but did not know about the appropriateness of just sending this out of the blue. I hope that sharing my opinion would ultimately do good not harm to Chrissie and other potential partners of Pat's.
I hope this was clear as I am pretty upset from listening to the podcast.

I heard the Pat episode when it originally aired and I can definitely remember feeling as though something was off about it but it didn't hit me then the way it hit me in Chrissie's recounting of her experience in the context of what we now know.

It was sickening to listen back to it just the other day. Pat was so clearly deranged in his thinking of the situation and I picked up on a palpable menace in his on air behaviour. Like - it could have taken just a little push and Pat could have leapt across the desk and latched onto the throats of either Keith or Chemda with his teeth.

There is something very dark going on up inside his head.

I am still concerned that Chrissie was physically harmed by him.

Keith 10-06-2015 10:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Dean from Australia (Post 848482)
There is something very dark going on up inside his head.

I am still concerned that Chrissie was physically harmed by him.

It is of note that Chrissie liked the previous comment.

Scumhook 10-07-2015 12:04 AM

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Originally Posted by violachick8 (Post 848481)
I hope this was clear as I am pretty upset from listening to the podcast.

You're in luck, bby.

I am a PhD*, and run a support group for people upset and/or triggered by podcasts.

PM me your details, as well as your bra & panty size, and let's let the healing begin. Anything you share will be kept in the strictest confidence, and will only be posted on the internet if it's really interesting and/or funny.



















*Pretty Huge Dickbag

Scumhook 10-07-2015 12:09 AM

In case anyone missed it, Pattycakes Dixon is slipping it to Mandy "I'm Redefining Feminism" Stadtmiller.

It will be interesting to see how the SoCal Amazon Feminazi handles his tender manipulations. IMUO she's already showing signs of a slight personality change...

Given what a massive cunt she was to cHemmo recently, I hope he grinds her into vagina-scented potpourii, and puts her in a nice little bowl on his coffee table.

thirteen 10-07-2015 10:10 AM

The episode where he discussed this relationship is the episode in which I started being repulsed by him.

http://www.keithandthegirl.com/forum...-killer-17740/

Rufio 10-08-2015 04:33 PM

http://i.imgur.com/zOjHIis.jpg

Can't wait to hear about the angry calls/texts chrissie got from pat over this episode

littlp 10-08-2015 05:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Rufio (Post 848539)
http://i.imgur.com/zOjHIis.jpg

Can't wait to hear about the angry calls/texts chrissie got from pat over this episode


This makes me want to puke. I'm so fucking mad at myself too. I fucking knew better. I'm on s domestic violence committee for fucks sake. This is just sickening.


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Scumhook 10-08-2015 06:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by littlp (Post 848541)
I'm on a domestic violence committee

Wow - me too!!

Is your committee for or against?

My Sweaty Balls 10-08-2015 08:27 PM

Man - Chet dropping the N-word is a bit of a blow.

I was really hoping that using it got so common at the Hanks household that Tom would drop it at the Academy awards. In my dream scenario he follows up by fist pounding Mel Gibson.

I reckon KATG should get Colin Hanks on. He's got a doco to promote, but I'm sure he wouldn't mind spending 30mins talking about growing up with Chet.

Mundane Soul 10-09-2015 08:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rufio (Post 848539)
http://i.imgur.com/zOjHIis.jpg

Can't wait to hear about the angry calls/texts chrissie got from pat over this episode

Jesus Christ. What a fucking horrific douchebag.

FingerLakes 10-09-2015 12:01 PM

Ugh
this whole thing made me feeling all the emotions. I only caught the very end of the Patty Saga so I missed his arc, as it were, on the show. Never heard the eps mentioned here where was clearly talking about how he was cutting his girlfriend off from friends and family like a kidnapper or defending Woody Allen so fiercely. So I only knew he him as a guy who's relationship with KATG was destroyed.

I started listening to his podcast at the beginning of the year and as it deals with crimes rape comes up alot. His rape jokes were always the kind I found funny where the joke is on the absurdity of the crime or criminal. But that changed back in the beginning of the summer and I realized that it was around the time Chemda reported running into him in Queens. The jokes became "ugh another woman is complaining about rape" or asking him asking "is that rape? would you call that rape? It doesn't sound like rape"

He was going through some shit because for 2 months or so. I would skips the episode because he was so distracted and unfunny. Things were super uncomfortable when he started asking guests if THEY thought he was a sexual predator or creep. Everyone dodged the question I wonder how he'll react to this episode

Enunciated Piffle 10-09-2015 03:51 PM

Another KATG show reference to Patty. Another RIP in the comment section.

Ho hum.

On a positive note, safe travels, good times, and a hearty L Chaim to everyone on the tour bus.

iheartnihilism 10-13-2015 05:31 PM

Chrissie was nice and all, yada yada, but Laughs is the 2nd most fucking unfunny thing on tv.

FingerLakes 10-14-2015 11:55 AM

what's first?

amnesiac 10-14-2015 12:20 PM

Emotional Abuse
 
I wanted to write Chrissie privately but I think it's probably better to talk in public about abusive relationships.

There are lots of behaviours that add up to abuse such as gaslighting (making you feel like the crazy one), blaming the relationship problems on you, constantly changing the rules and expectations then getting mad when you can't follow and make a "mistake", blaming you for making them feel bad and giving you the responsibility to keep them alive and happy, and belittling or minimizing your worth.

The best example here though, is purposeful separation from a support network of friends and family.

I was in a relationship like that too and it was so confusing. I thought it was my fault because I wasn't trying hard enough and then when I got out and tried to talk about it I'd say things like "she wasn't nice to me" and couldn't explain why. It's because we don't have the words to talk about emotional abuse like we do about physical abuse.

Also, Pat obviously doesn't have any respect for women. Good for you Chrissie for recognizing that his bad behaviour is not your fault.

Lazarou 11-03-2015 09:35 AM

Pat stuff aside I thought Chrissie was a great guest and very entertaining. I join everyone else in my shock at Chet Hanxs revelation but I do hope that he continues to sling it proper.


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