Boys Vs Girls

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[jorjo]

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fantasizing about being mormon is going to leave an existential mark

[campy]

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ok, then shall I move on to the nurse in cell block 18? the newbie with ideals and dreams???

[jorjo]

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[campy]

Originally Posted by jorjo

I've only been involved for just over 4 years. An ex started dating a masochist after he & I broke up. We were still friendly, so he'd be telling me stuff and I was like "OMG that's so HOT". So I joined up with the local group here and haven't looked back. There were probably signs prior to that, but nothing hard core.

The vast majority of my partners have been vanilla - as I was. Now though, I'm not sure I could go back. Any vanilla partner would have to be totally cool about me continuing to be involved and about seeing me with marks, bruises and scars from another man ... that's likely to be too big an ask.

Yes, I go to work with bruises, but they're covered by my clothes, so there's nothing to explain.

My 'kid' is 24 and he hasn't always been here. He just moved back temporarily after returning from overseas. He doesn't want to know. He knows something is up - one time he dropped me off at a party and the next day he asked if he'd dropped me off at an orgy - hahaha. All I need to do is offer to answer his questions and he shuts up.

I totally love the 'being tricked' fantasy - mine probably end up somewhere different to yours, but same general principle

WOW, you MUST have had something in there waiting to be unleashed. Dan Savage is always saying that it could happen to anyone...anywhere! I think your son saved himself there ahhahaha see no evil and all that!

You know, our buddy Bob from the cubicle thinks the older you get the more uncomfortable you must be with yourself. So if you are insecure at 31 IMAGINE how bad it will be at 41.... Personally I think the older you get the more you learn about yourself and the more you think...fuck it, i'm not getting any younger. Of course not all of us jump to infusing 2 liters of saline into body parts but you never know what might happen if you open that pandoras box!

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[Luna]

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waiting for ref•use () to chide me about not posting numbers . .

[Luna]

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