Fuck on the First Date?

[Medium Brumski]

I've had two girlfriends in my life that I've really liked, one of them we had sex on our first date (if you define date loosely, no pun), but she was a cool chick and I was already interested, the sex was just the cherry on top (a fucking amazing cherry at that). So I guess I have to say it depends, but you're a cool chick yourself, so the odds should be in your favor.

As for "He got what he wanted," I'll never understand that. Hey guys of the world, if she fucks on the first date, she'll probably fuck on the 2nd, and 3rd, and 4th... Unless she gets weird or clingy (or smells bad), you might as well keep it going. If the guy has weird hang-ups about needing to have a chase, or feeling that he's dating a whore, better to find out sooner then later, and at the same time you'll find out if you're sexually compatible.

A little extra dating advice, how specific did this guy get about why he needed to cancel the date? The more specific, the better. And did he try to re-schedule then, or just say he'd call you later or whatever? Those are your clues as to whether he was blowing you off, or honestly had something else come up.

[benjita]

Yeah, I don't quite get that one either. Who in their right mind would be happy jerking off to Skype when you can have the real thing?

Just weird...

[Feelz Good]

Just go with what happens, if you have to sit down and really think about it then you probably shouldn't have sex on the first date. Don't worry about it, just go on a date and see what happens.

As for this guy that you met online, yeah, I think he's done. He did get what he wanted, but he just sounds like a pussy or someone already in a relationship looking to get off. But you had a good conversation and apparently got off as well, you don't regret it, so you got what you wanted too. I'd stay away from skype sex or even talking about sex with anyone you meet online (specifically through a dating site), in fact I did. I met my current girlfriend online, we never talked about sex, however when we met for the first time we were fucking within 20 minutes. Fifteen months later and here we are, madly in love.

[FletchLives]

Originally Posted by the_eD

Give him that becky.

best solution so far.

i'm going to go in the middle of the road here. i think if it feels right, go ahead and jump those bones on the first date. BUT, if you do that, don't fuck him the next 2 times you hang out. it lets hims know you're ready but you aren't just in it for sex.

..or there's always blowing him.

[punk'n]

Vi- You're asking a bunch of whores. DEW IT!

[BrianAlt]

My wife is someone I met at a party and went back to my place with. We will be married for 20 years soon. So, you never know.

It's not about the sex, it's about the person.

[Junkenstein]

and luck.

so better to at least get some fun out of it.

[FletchLives]

basically, everyone is giving the same advice.
do what makes your vagina happy.

[John Galt]

Originally Posted by BrianAlt

My wife is someone I met at a party and went back to my place with. We will be married for 20 years soon. So, you never know.

It's not about the sex, it's about the person.

So close to this that it isn't worth editing.

[shoogbear63]

Let's say hypothetically that sex on the first date does potentially run a guy off... do you want to date someone who would be turned off by sex on the first date?