Fuck on the First Date?

[banger316]

Originally Posted by Junkenstein

If he really got what he wanted on skype and doesnt want to date with you anymore, he's an idiot and a lousy lay. Skype Sex isnt Sex. Its a fun pastime to have when the real thing isnt available.

How can you feel satisfied when you havent touched skins, felt each other taste, scratched each other and discovered each other spots that drive you insane. Sex is the deal breaker and the greatest way to make a date really meaningful.

If he ditched you for that, you dodged a lousy lay or a guy with serious issues.

But if you feel that you really like him, give him another chamce and have sex. Real Sex. See if he's worth your worries and feelings. Talk, face to face. Have a real kiss, enjoying each other lips and bodies. pacing to each other's heart.

Thats the real heart of any attraction. If he doesnt want or get that.... say goodbye.

I like the way you think junkenstein much can be learned from you. Me personally i am against all one night stands unless the person in question is having sex with me then game on

[lattaland]

What's with all this 'just say goodbye' nonsense? It's not that easy when you are on the business end of the ol' heave-ho.
Hey, rejection hurts and for that, my heart breaks for ya, Vi.

[Junkenstein]

Originally Posted by lattaland

What's with all this 'just say goodbye' nonsense? It's not that easy when you are on the business end of the ol' heave-ho.
Hey, rejection hurts and for that, my heart breaks for ya, Vi.

yes, rejection hurts. Hurts a lot. but stewing on it makes it worse, and
compassion doesnt help.

Vi must know that she is awesome, this dude's a creepy douche and she can easily take a dump on his head and shouldnt feel bad about it.

[FletchLives]

Originally Posted by Junkenstein

Vi must know that she is awesome, this dude's a creepy douche and she can easily take a dump on his head and shouldnt feel bad about it.

well put sir

[violachick8]

Initially it was a bit of a bummer but I was more interested in the general question of is fucking on the first date is a good idea. I am slowly accepting the fact that I'm pretty fucking awesome and worthy of people's time as Junk suggested and will not get real upset over one dude. I'm dating three people right now I already have a pretty full plate

[violachick8]

Figured I'd give yall an update. I got a bee in my bonnet so I messaged him and he replied. Is this a whole bunch of bullshit? Or do I believe its just him being busy which is what my gut is saying.
Me:I am taking it that you are either no longer interested or intensely busy. If you could let a gal know thatd be super. This whole total silence thing is not my bag.
Him: Miss, I have 2 jobs, am a full time student, and have my hand in multiple projects. I assure you that this is not a silent treatment.

I am interested albeit busy. Feel free to catch me on skype again and we'll chat some more in the mean time.

Sorry for the inconvenience.

[lattaland]

Originally Posted by violachick8

Figured I'd give yall an update. I got a bee in my bonnet so I messaged him and he replied. Is this a whole bunch of bullshit? Or do I believe its just him being busy which is what my gut is saying.
Me:I am taking it that you are either no longer interested or intensely busy. If you could let a gal know thatd be super. This whole total silence thing is not my bag.
Him: Miss, I have 2 jobs, am a full time student, and have my hand in multiple projects. I assure you that this is not a silent treatment.

I am interested albeit busy. Feel free to catch me on skype again and we'll chat some more in the mean time.

Sorry for the inconvenience.

"So, if you wanna take off you clothes and Skype, then we could still do that."

[FletchLives]

Originally Posted by FletchLives

with this guy it probably is best to just let him be gone forever. different rules apply with people met over the dating sites. he's probably on okcupid because he wants the women without any form of commitment.

sorry to say this sweetheart, but i think i was right. he most likely will not form any relationship offline.

[Junkenstein]

Originally Posted by violachick8

Figured I'd give yall an update. I got a bee in my bonnet so I messaged him and he replied. Is this a whole bunch of bullshit? Or do I believe its just him being busy which is what my gut is saying.
Me:I am taking it that you are either no longer interested or intensely busy. If you could let a gal know thatd be super. This whole total silence thing is not my bag.
Him: Miss, I have 2 jobs, am a full time student, and have my hand in multiple projects. I assure you that this is not a silent treatment.

I am interested albeit busy. Feel free to catch me on skype again and we'll chat some more in the mean time.

Sorry for the inconvenience.

Loooove paranoiaaaaaa <3

[marina]

Originally Posted by violachick8

Him: Miss, I have 2 jobs, am a full time student, and have my hand in multiple projects. I assure you that this is not a silent treatment.

Does anyone else think this sentence sounds condescending? Unless him calling you miss is a cute thing you've got going on.

He sounds like a skype sex friend. Although if he is, he's a skype sex friend that can't be honest about it, so he's a bad skype sex friend. Skype is full of potential sex friends that won't string you along or act like they're waaaay too important to show up to the date they made with you.