Girlfriend just broke up with me..

blackpussy · 12-07-2010, 06:03 PM

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Originally Posted by BrianAlt

Yes, duh Mr. nERD.

Maybe it's not your baby? Maybe that's why she wants nothing to do with you.

^^^ This.

fluxquanta · 12-07-2010, 06:11 PM

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Originally Posted by DWarrior

lol

That was the one part that caught my attention, too.

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typicallistener · 12-07-2010, 08:03 PM

It gets better. Unless it gets worse, which it might. The important thing is, find new pussy.

MadMaddy · 12-07-2010, 08:37 PM

Holidays are the hardest time to be alone, I know but maybe if you focus on your kids and not yourself maybe you will feel better. Also, don't find a new woman for a while. When you do find a new woman, wear two condoms, seriously.

I have found that when people say all women/men they pick are crazy they are usually picking people based only on looks or money, or something not really good for them. Not trying to judge you, just trying to help you for next time. Maybe be friends first, that way you don't end up with another "situation".

I too am alone this holiday season and it sucks balls, very depressed so trying to spend it concentrating on giving to others and basically not thinking about all I have lost. I hope it gets better for you.

neRD · 12-08-2010, 01:47 AM

For all the advice.. I'm pretty positive it's mine and after not talking to her 48 hours she txt'd me and told me she still thinks about me and she is sorry for going off on me so I'm not sure where that leaves us but I'm just going to give her lots of space so she can decide what she wants. I know having 3 children by three different women before I'm thirty isn't something to be proud of but at least I have taken responsibility for what I have wrought. I have so much sympathy for single mothers that never get any child support or help of any kind. Enough ranting I guess, thanks guys.

campy · 12-08-2010, 07:55 AM

Taking responsibility of your children means to make sure you can take care of them. Adding to the pile is not taking responsibility, I know that is judgmental but seriously, where is your head at.

I have one,I am in my late 30ties, I am in a long term committed relationship, my man and I are professionals and financially stable and we realized from day one, HOly SHIt this is fucking hard. I can't imagine doing this alone, with a third on the way, in my 20ties with a string of mommas to contend with.

Screw the broken heart B.S. you have other fish to fry dude

iheartnihilism · 12-08-2010, 11:31 AM

I stopped reading at "we've been dating for 5 months."
Get over it.

Cretaceous Bob · 12-08-2010, 11:39 AM

28 everybody. Good lord.

Junkenstein · 12-08-2010, 12:22 PM

so? 28 year olds arent affected by breakups?

Cretaceous Bob · 12-08-2010, 12:30 PM

Yes. That's it. There's nothing unique to dislike about this person, I hate him just because he is sad.

12-07-2010, 08:03 PM	#23 (permalink)
typicallistener Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 1,293	It gets better. Unless it gets worse, which it might. The important thing is, find new pussy.
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12-07-2010, 08:37 PM	#24 (permalink)
MadMaddy Member Join Date: May 2010 Location: North Carolina Posts: 46	Holidays are the hardest time to be alone, I know but maybe if you focus on your kids and not yourself maybe you will feel better. Also, don't find a new woman for a while. When you do find a new woman, wear two condoms, seriously. I have found that when people say all women/men they pick are crazy they are usually picking people based only on looks or money, or something not really good for them. Not trying to judge you, just trying to help you for next time. Maybe be friends first, that way you don't end up with another "situation". I too am alone this holiday season and it sucks balls, very depressed so trying to spend it concentrating on giving to others and basically not thinking about all I have lost. I hope it gets better for you.
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12-08-2010, 01:47 AM	#25 (permalink)
neRD Junior Member Join Date: May 2010 Location: Washington State Posts: 23	Thanks For all the advice.. I'm pretty positive it's mine and after not talking to her 48 hours she txt'd me and told me she still thinks about me and she is sorry for going off on me so I'm not sure where that leaves us but I'm just going to give her lots of space so she can decide what she wants. I know having 3 children by three different women before I'm thirty isn't something to be proud of but at least I have taken responsibility for what I have wrought. I have so much sympathy for single mothers that never get any child support or help of any kind. Enough ranting I guess, thanks guys.
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12-08-2010, 07:55 AM	#26 (permalink)
campy Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Canada Posts: 11,868	Taking responsibility of your children means to make sure you can take care of them. Adding to the pile is not taking responsibility, I know that is judgmental but seriously, where is your head at. I have one,I am in my late 30ties, I am in a long term committed relationship, my man and I are professionals and financially stable and we realized from day one, HOly SHIt this is fucking hard. I can't imagine doing this alone, with a third on the way, in my 20ties with a string of mommas to contend with. Screw the broken heart B.S. you have other fish to fry dude
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iheartnihilism Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Jersey City Posts: 1,571	I stopped reading at "we've been dating for 5 months." Get over it.
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Cretaceous Bob Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Virginia Posts: 2,358	28 everybody. Good lord.
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Cretaceous Bob Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Virginia Posts: 2,358	Yes. That's it. There's nothing unique to dislike about this person, I hate him just because he is sad.
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