Let's get Jeremy laid...

[william]

Man!

There's so much to do in the city. Most nights there's a club if you've got to go - you could meet someone who really likes you...

Going out. Every week there should be a place to socialize.

What kills most dudes is their shyness.

Be yourself.

You will be who you are forever, so make sure the one who loves you loves the true you and not that which was created to attract them.

[DaHonay]

Go out in a group. Find a cute girl in that group. Pass out in a bar next to a cute girl and see if she fancies you enough to make sure you get home and takes care of you. ;-)

[Incognito]

Look at it this way Jeremy, there are 2.2 billion women in this world (ages 15-64), approximately 4.4 million in NY (metro) alone; you've got to put it in your mind that the options are pretty much endless. You have so many opportunities, that it won't matter if it doesn't work out with a person; that's why we're social animals, so we'll have these multiple experiences with people with various histories/backgrounds/characteristics. You're still young enough not to get jaded and cynical.

While I figure you've already given up on this fact, it's food for thought.