My wife just left me, please help

[Adamus]

Originally Posted by Luna

Some Texas ass for ya' I hope everything goes well for you.

I agree with Vi that partysuperparty.com is a good place to go when you need someone to talk to.

Damn, Luna, that is one spectacular ass. Thanks for the sympathy pic! I certainly cheered me up

[Adamus]

Originally Posted by DWarrior

Archer, if you haven't seen it yet.

Do you mean the animated show? If so, OMG, I actually came across it on Netflix last night and have been burning through episodes ever since. It's too fucking funny!

[Adamus]

So, today was a super shitty day. My wife came over and once again brought a friend with her.

Up until today, I didn't really know why she decided to leave me. We talked a lot today, but I still don't completely understand. Basically, she said that she woke up last Sunday and "realized that she didn't love me anymore".

I found out something even more sad. We haven't had an official honeymoon since our wedding last summer and I knew it was important to her. She wanted the typical, "let's go away to someplace warm and fuck like crazy." trip. While I'm always up for crazy fucking, I'm not much of a beach person. I really love to travel, but I've always preferred European countries. But, I knew it was important to her, so I recently started planning a surprise trip to the tropics at a nice resort with fun activities, a fancy room, etc. I was planning on surprising her in a fun way soon when I had all the details worked out. I was getting excited about it. Of course, I didn't get to spring the surprise before she left me last Sunday.

Today, I spilled the beans on my surprise plan and I asked her that if I would have told her about this surprise, even just a week ago, would it have made a difference. She said, "yes". This really devastated me. I'm not sure if she meant it, but I wish that she would have said "no". Now, I'll be always asking myself, what if I had just told her about the surprise a little earlier?

I'm delusional, I know that there's a good chance that she probably would have left me anyway, but in a depressed, emotional state, it's hard not to play "what if".

She's gone now. I don't know what to do. The experience was horrible, but cathartic. My heart hurts so much right now.

Fuck, this sucks. Thanks again to everyone for your support. You really are my lifeline right now.

[Rufio]

Originally Posted by Adamus

So, today was a super shitty day. My wife came over and once again brought a friend with her.

Up until today, I didn't really know why she decided to leave me. We talked a lot today, but I still don't completely understand. Basically, she said that she woke up last Sunday and "realized that she didn't love me anymore".

I found out something even more sad. We haven't had an official honeymoon since our wedding last summer and I knew it was important to her. She wanted the typical, "let's go away to someplace warm and fuck like crazy." trip. While I'm always up for crazy fucking, I'm not much of a beach person. I really love to travel, but I've always preferred European countries. But, I knew it was important to her, so I recently started planning a surprise trip to the tropics at a nice resort with fun activities, a fancy room, etc. I was planning on surprising her in a fun way soon when I had all the details worked out. I was getting excited about it. Of course, I didn't get to spring the surprise before she left me last Sunday.

Today, I spilled the beans on my surprise plan and I asked her that if I would have told her about this surprise, even just a week ago, would it have made a difference. She said, "yes". This really devastated me. I'm not sure if she meant it, but I wish that she would have said "no". Now, I'll be always asking myself, what if I had just told her about the surprise a little earlier?

I'm delusional, I know that there's a good chance that she probably would have left me anyway, but in a depressed, emotional state, it's hard not to play "what if".

She's gone now. I don't know what to do. The experience was horrible, but cathartic. My heart hurts so much right now.

Fuck, this sucks. Thanks again to everyone for your support. You really are my lifeline right now.

I wouldn't believe it, that's something someone says just to be spiteful and hurtful. fuck her.

[Adamus]

Originally Posted by Rufio

I wouldn't believe it, that's something someone says just to be spiteful and hurtful. fuck her.

Yeah, it really shocked me. It's so unlike her. She is the least materialistic person I know. I just had a video chat with my parents and brother and they couldn't believe it. I just have to tell myself that she didn't mean it, for my own sanity. Sigh.

[Dean from Australia]

Originally Posted by Adamus

Yeah, it really shocked me. It's so unlike her. She is the least materialistic person I know. I just had a video chat with my parents and brother and they couldn't believe it. I just have to tell myself that she didn't mean it, for my own sanity. Sigh.

Mate, pack your bags and get the fuck out of there. This is turning into a head fuck. Remember what I told you about her posse.

Get. Out. Now.

[Sparrow]

as someone who fell out of love, nope, would not have made a difference. chances are she checked out a while ago and no manner of surprise would've magically turned her heart around. maybe she's just wishful thinking it would have. i did that for a while. being the fallen makes one the asshole and that's a tough pill to swallow.

[Adamus]

Originally Posted by Sparrow

as someone who fell out of love, nope, would not have made a difference. chances are she checked out a while ago and no manner of surprise would've magically turned her heart around. maybe she's just wishful thinking it would have. i did that for a while. being the fallen makes one the asshole and that's a tough pill to swallow.

Good points. Thanks, Sparrow. From what I recall, you had a rough time with your ex. Hope you're doing good now. I wish I had your confidence and...boobs...yeah, I like boobs

[Rufio]

It's prob too soon at the moment, but as soon as you can just go out and get some strange. Go to a local bar, buy a girl a few drinks and get it in.

[Enunciated Piffle]

Originally Posted by Rufio

It's prob too soon at the moment, but as soon as you can just go out and get some strange. gGo to a local bar, buy a girl a few drinks and get it in.

Quite possibly the greatest advice concerning a broken-hearted man, ever. Sounds like reality hasn't hit your heart yet - probably cuz your not allowing it to. This bitch is OTD aka Out The Door. Your only fucking yourself up by not embracing what this means.