role reversal/cross dressing in the bedroom discussion

[madeyeshawn]

It was for me of course, ass play is fun. I always felt like every time I saw a woman have an orgasm I was missing something in my own. Like theirs were more powerful and longer lasting. So I started sticking toys up there and bang I discovered the elusive half of my orgasm. Thanks prostate, no more neglecting you.

That to me is not as crazy as cross dressing though, or maybe their both crazy. Whatevs, if it feels good its not wrong.

[Sparrow]

Not so much for myself. Anything emasculating is a big turn off for me. I like my men manly and powerful.

[madeyeshawn]

Originally Posted by Sparrow

Not so much for myself. Anything emasculating is a big turn off for me. I like my men manly and powerful.

if you never get bored with one re-occurring role, awesome. If you do, its not as earth shattering to flip the script as you might have originally thought. At least in my experience it has not hurt my manliness or my gfs attraction to my "typical" manly role while in said role.

That is the role that originally attracted her to me, and is still the predominant bedroom dynamic. After 3 years we just added a few wild cards to our repertoire.

But by all means, if its not broke dont fix it.

[Sparrow]

Originally Posted by madeyeshawn

if you never get bored with one re-occurring role, awesome.

Hey, just cause I don't like seeing Sarge in my lacy barely theres doesn't mean I'm hoofin' it missionary with a bible in my hand. Not sharing what makes your dick twitch in no way reduces the depth or breadth of my of sexual perversions; I assure you, my friend, they are many and varied.

[madeyeshawn]

Originally Posted by Sparrow

Hey, just cause I don't like seeing Sarge in my lacy barely theres doesn't mean I'm hoofin' it missionary with a bible in my hand. Not sharing what makes your dick twitch in no way reduces the depth or breadth of my of sexual perversions; I assure you, my friend, they are many and varied.

"Roles" and "acts" are two separate things, I wouldn't assume less of a katg fan. I wasn't calling you vanilla.

My gf and I were always exploring kinky acts like role playing, ass play, and bondage but they were always bound to the rules of Male=dom female=sub. For me cross dressing was the most powerful disconnect from my "typical" dom role. I just felt like her bitch, and it was a dam sexy feeling. But I dont think that has turned her off of finding my dom role as any less masculine and attractive than before.

Like most things in life, to each their own.

[Sparrow]

True.

[JessiC]

I voted no, but good for you. Anything that gets you off...so long as it's legal and consensual.

[fallingwindows]

Originally Posted by madeyeshawn

That to me is not as crazy as cross dressing though, or maybe their both crazy. Whatevs, if it feels good its not wrong.

As a Lutheran, I believe that if God didn't want us to have sex he wouldn't have blessed us with orgasms. (Congrats on expanding yours.) I can't believe that consensual (not permanently harmful) kinks are wrong in any way.

[madeyeshawn]

Originally Posted by fallingwindows

As a Lutheran, I believe that if God didn't want us to have sex he wouldn't have blessed us with orgasms. (Congrats on expanding yours.) I can't believe that consensual (not permanently harmful) kinks are wrong in any way.

Thanks!

Does anyone else have some interesting role reversal stories/experiences.