Snuggly wuggly..AWWWW.. STFU

[JediMom]

Originally Posted by RyeNOTBourbon

Sorry I just dont fall into to that I need reassurance thing ..tell me you luv me every day and hold me tight thing...why is it after sex you need to cuddle? To reassure your not just having sex? After a good go you get the towel clean up wash up and get on with shit ...You cant tell me theres any comfortable way to "hold" someone in bed.You spoon then your arm falls asleep or you get the hot sweaty touch then awkwardness. Hey I'm all for a hug or siting beside each other with a squeeze or something once in a while...

Maybe Im just cold, Im not being a smartass I dont get the snuggle cuddle thing...makes me feel trapped, makes me feel like the other is to needy.Last girl I was with was all klingy like "ohh dont go 5 more mins" ..FUCK BLEH made me wanna puke I had to literaly lift her off me ..LADIES worst thing ever..Klinging to someone...

When you say this, do you mean cuddling without like, making out or SOMETHING? Huh?

[the big lebowski]

i think he meant cuddling after sex and not before in order to get it. i think there's a point where the cuddling after sex sort of falls off anyways.

[JediMom]

Originally Posted by the big lebowski

i think he meant cuddling after sex and not before in order to get it. i think there's a point where the cuddling after sex sort of falls off anyways.

Isn't that where you take a shower together and start the process over again? ::

[the big lebowski]

Originally Posted by spaceboy

Despite the fact that I ask you repeatedly.

hehe...yeh, i think men and women have different ways of asking for it.

[RyeNOTBourbon]

I mean both....mostly after though. If it does not lead to sex, why then? After I can understand if the sex was bad and you pitty the fool, but after a good fuck your all sweaty and coverd with "stuff" you clean up and go...I dont know sex is sex I dont equate it with feelings of this thing refered to as caring..( no L word) Fuck hard Fuck often..grow up if your an adult you shouldnt need the comfort of a cuddle after...Maybe its because i wasnt tittie feed as a child..Fuck that, its because its gay...

[JediMom]

I hope some other women weigh in on this, because I am really interested to see what they have to say.....

[JediMom]

Originally Posted by RyeNOTBourbon

I mean both....mostly after though. If it does not lead to sex, why then? After I can understand if the sex was bad and you pitty the fool, but after a good fuck your all sweaty and coverd with "stuff" you clean up and go...I dont know sex is sex I dont equate it with feelings of this thing refered to as caring..( no L word) Fuck hard Fuck often..grow up if your an adult you shouldnt need the comfort of a cuddle after...Maybe its because i wasnt tittie feed as a child..Fuck that, its because its gay...

Well, I understand some of that, but you sound real bitter.

Sorry, I call 'em like I see 'em.

[the big lebowski]

i'll cuddle around for about 20 minutes cause i'll usually be ready to go again.

[jesus]

Originally Posted by RyeNOTBourbon

Snuggly wuggly..AWWWW.. STFU

Rye, am I correct in assuming that you've recenly come to the end of a relationship?

[RyeNOTBourbon]

Originally Posted by JediMom

Isn't that where you take a shower together and start the process over again? ::

Now thats the idea....someone that gets it...