Virginity

[jorjo]

Originally Posted by lalalemon

I lost mine a few weeks ago

But thinking about it, giving out blow jobs like they were candy when I was sixteen makes me just as slutty as the rest of my skank-friends :/

Congrats

I was 15, with my first love. awww

We were in his bed and spent the whole night together. Lucky we did, because things didn't work out too well on the first couple of attempts - damn muscles! My overwhelming memory is of awkwardness and embarrassment, followed by relief, enjoyment and a little pain. I didn't bleed, we did use a condom, but neither of us came. We were woken the next morning by his mom walking in to ask if he wanted breakfast - finding me and threatening to call my parents

No I don't regret it.

Waiting until marriage is stupid (I'd be a 39 year old virgin if I did that! (or, more likely, married to the wrong guy) (or, even more likely, divorced))).

I was more freaked out by giving my first blow-job than I was by having sex. The bj was all "OMG I had a PENIS in my MOUTH!". The sex was more along the lines of "Wow! Yay! Wow! Yay!"

[Diana]

So yesterday at lunch time, I was sitting with 2 girls, Stephanie and Mirissa. Now, Mirissa is a virgin and Stephanie isn't. Stephanie goes "Oh wow, I still can't believe you are a virgin! I have never been friends with one before." Frankly, that is one of the stupidest things to tell someone. She should be thrown off a bridge for it. But for now I'll pretent to be her friend.


But most of you are saying no to the whole saving it. I don't know guys, I just have no idea what to do.

[jorjo]

Originally Posted by Diana

So yesterday at lunch time, I was sitting with 2 girls, Stephanie and Mirissa. Now, Mirissa is a virgin and Stephanie isn't. Stephanie goes "Oh wow, I still can't believe you are a virgin! I have never been friends with one before." Frankly, that is one of the stupidest things to tell someone. She should be thrown off a bridge for it. But for now I'll pretent to be her friend.

But most of you are saying no to the whole saving it. I don't know guys, I just have no idea what to do.

Yup - that sure was stupid.

Anyways - for as long as you're not sure - don't do it. Simple really. You don't necessarily need to save yourself for marriage - just save it 'til you're ready.

[BrianAlt]

What are you asking Diana? Are you asking if you should lose your virginity or are you asking if you should be friends with this person?

[Diana]

Originally Posted by BrianAlt

What are you asking Diana? Are you asking if you should lose your virginity or are you asking if you should be friends with this person?

I'm just seeing at what age everyone lost their virginity and what their opinion is on the whole saving it part. I know I should just wait until I am ready but I'm barely allowed out of the house. What if I don't have a boyfriend until I am 24?

[BrianAlt]

Don't fuck someone for the sake of losing your virginity! You're 17 darling. You WILL have a boyfriend. You WILL love someone. You will have a reason and a want to sleep with someone. If you look at the stories, the best ones were about 2 people that actually wanted to be with each other. So wait till you find someone that you actually WANT to be with.

Not before.

[Diana]

Originally Posted by BrianAlt

Don't fuck someone for the sake of losing your virginity! You're 17 darling. You WILL have a boyfriend. You WILL love someone. You will have a reason and a want to sleep with someone. If you look at the stories, the best ones were about 2 people that actually wanted to be with each other. So wait till you find someone that you actually WANT to be with.

Not before.

I definetally don't want to lose it just fopr the sake of losing it. I think that is stupid. I know way too many girls who have done that. I think the one thing I am most scared of is me not being able to love. That is why I made the What Is Love thread, so I can see how it feels like. But I am just scared that I will never be able to.

[Bebe]

Originally Posted by campy

I have been with a couple of men who were virgins in their 20ties...only thing wrong with that is how they felt about themselves. Had to convince them they were just fine in bed and they were.

I agree. He was my third virgin. You get to train em up which is good, but now I've tried it, I prefer someone knows their way around.

[porky2468]

Originally Posted by Diana

I think the one thing I am most scared of is me not being able to love. That is why I made the What Is Love thread, so I can see how it feels like.

It sounds SO cheesey, but you'll know when you're in love!!

[Bebe]

Originally Posted by Diana

I definetally don't want to lose it just fopr the sake of losing it. I think that is stupid. I know way too many girls who have done that. I think the one thing I am most scared of is me not being able to love. That is why I made the What Is Love thread, so I can see how it feels like. But I am just scared that I will never be able to.

Maybe try not to confuse love and sex. You don't need to love someone to have really great sex with them.

And love is something that you can't know about until you try it. When it happens, it will happen, and if it doesn't, you'll not miss it. That's my experience anyway.