Virginity

craig0r · 09-19-2008, 02:40 PM

Yeah for real... Like, I don't really *regret* that I lost it to some girl I barely knew... I was still glad to have done it, but there have been several girls since then that I would've rather lost it to... I hope that helps.

Ideally it should be with someone you love, but it's not like you're going to hate yourself your whole life if the moment's not absolutely perfect.

aunt_helen · 09-19-2008, 03:27 PM

I lost mine at 16, and it was something I'd really wanted to do, but once I'd done it I sort of felt sad and that I'd rushed it. Still, with that pesky hymen out of the way I jumped into sex both guns a-blazin'.

I've taken three virginities, too - at least, that's all I know about. I don't think there's anything wrong with waiting, but once you hit your 20s there can be a sort of momentum of virginitude that starts to build up, and it can get larger and make the thought of finally doin' it more and more intimidating. Just get in the saddle when the desire takes you and I think you'll be okay, as long as you're smart about it.

Cart Horse · 09-19-2008, 04:27 PM

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Originally Posted by aunt_helen

momentum of virginitude)

nice

hellbent · 09-19-2008, 05:15 PM

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Originally Posted by pala

My first time I was 14, the girl was 19. (your not going to believe this but meh here goes) She was a Clog Dancer with a bluegrass band. I was on the trip with my grandparents in Kansas City, Missouri (was just along for the free hotel and they signed me out of school early on friday). Didn't even go to the concert I was in the hot tub soaking up the free hotel amenities. She came to the hot tub, was very aggressive, I knew about sex of course but I sure as hell didn't know about advances by women. She asked me back to her hotel room and "manhandled" me is the only term I can think of thats appropriate. Being a clog dancer she had legs that she wrapped around me like a python and just wouldn't let go. Of course being 14 I came in like 45 sec, she didn't care, she had plenty of time. We did it 4 more times that evening till I had to go back with my grandparents.

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sully_04 · 09-19-2008, 05:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Diana

I definetally don't want to lose it just fopr the sake of losing it. I think that is stupid. I know way too many girls who have done that. I think the one thing I am most scared of is me not being able to love. That is why I made the What Is Love thread, so I can see how it feels like. But I am just scared that I will never be able to.

you are putting to much into this. two options:

1. if your scared dont do it.

2. if you arent scared, dont do it.

you will learn the more you think about sex, the more thought feeling and emotion you apply to SEX, (not the love myths all you freaks keep crying about) the more likely you are to fuck it up.

Mikey · 09-20-2008, 04:07 AM

meh... wasn;t really given a choice.

EllaMacFarlane · 09-20-2008, 04:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Mikey

meh... wasn;t really given a choice.

/hugs

dont worry baby noone will ever hurt you again

Bebe · 09-20-2008, 04:15 AM

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Originally Posted by EllaMacFarlane

/hugs

dont worry baby noone will ever hurt you again

EllaMacFarlane · 09-20-2008, 04:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Bebe

rapist!

Bebe · 09-20-2008, 04:20 AM

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Originally Posted by EllaMacFarlane

rapist!

mmmmmmhmmmmmmm

09-19-2008, 02:40 PM	#101 (permalink)
craig0r Senior Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 164	Yeah for real... Like, I don't really regret that I lost it to some girl I barely knew... I was still glad to have done it, but there have been several girls since then that I would've rather lost it to... I hope that helps. Ideally it should be with someone you love, but it's not like you're going to hate yourself your whole life if the moment's not absolutely perfect.
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09-19-2008, 03:27 PM	#102 (permalink)
aunt_helen Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Portland, OR Posts: 308	I lost mine at 16, and it was something I'd really wanted to do, but once I'd done it I sort of felt sad and that I'd rushed it. Still, with that pesky hymen out of the way I jumped into sex both guns a-blazin'. I've taken three virginities, too - at least, that's all I know about. I don't think there's anything wrong with waiting, but once you hit your 20s there can be a sort of momentum of virginitude that starts to build up, and it can get larger and make the thought of finally doin' it more and more intimidating. Just get in the saddle when the desire takes you and I think you'll be okay, as long as you're smart about it.
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Mikey Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Gran, you might have noticed that my boyfriend glitters. It's just something that he does in the sun Posts: 4,704	meh... wasn;t really given a choice.
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