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Old 09-17-2008, 11:48 PM   #11 (permalink)
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15 xmas time bed squeaked and the dog was howling at the door
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Old 09-18-2008, 12:21 AM   #12 (permalink)
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16th birthday. Coincidently, it was the same day I smoked weed for the first time. All that to the soundtrack of the Deftones White Pony album. Magic .

Do I regret it? No. Was I ever under the impression I'd wait until marriage? No.
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Old 09-18-2008, 12:38 AM   #13 (permalink)
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The first time I had sex it was really uncomfortable and sweaty and boring, but we fucked at least three more times over that weekend and it got a lot better.

I was 19 and it happened at college, in my boyfriend's dorm room. Every time I've done anything sexual with a guy, especially if it was any kind of first I would check with myself whether or not I was doing something I wanted to do, and whether or not I'd be alright with what I'd done even if it didn't work out. I think doing that has really helped me enter into sexual situations with as clear a head as can be expected under the circumstances.

4 years later, I'm still with the same guy and I absolutely don't regret it. I didn't expect us to be together for this long, just according to the law of averages I thought that it would be a college thing at the longest, but we really get along. Despite the fact that I've only ever fucked one guy, I've always been staunchly against waiting until marriage. That's like saying "I'm not going to eat dairy until I'm married." You could do it, but it's silly and unreasonable. Why wouldn't you want to experience every part of life, whether single or married. If you end up marrying the first person you fuck, good, if you don't good. It doesn't matter in the end unless you focus on it.

I think virginity is only a big deal because our culture makes it into a big deal. After awhile, I came to the conclusion that if I'd fucked the first guy that had any serious shot when I was 14, my life wouldn't have been that different. Maybe there would have been more distractions, but that's about it.
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Old 09-18-2008, 12:41 AM   #14 (permalink)
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I was 17 and in teenage-love.

No I don't regret it. But I think that it can fuck with your emotions, big time.

If no one told me that it gets better the older you are and the more you do it, then I would have thought 'what's the big deal'... Because for a girl, it is kinda painful and totally uncomfortable.
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Old 09-18-2008, 12:42 AM   #15 (permalink)
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right now that idea is starting to make sense to me.
YES.
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Old 09-18-2008, 12:43 AM   #16 (permalink)
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17, random hook-up. Awesome. No regrets. The girl is even coming to visit me in a month to see my college...
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Old 09-18-2008, 01:02 AM   #17 (permalink)
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If you did, at what age did you lose yours?
i was 16 i think. with my high school sweetheart. the one i shouldnt have let get away.

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nope, wish we got to practice more, lol!

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And what do you think about saving it until marriage? Is it really that much of a special thing?
i dated a girl who wanted to save it til marriage. eventually we fooled around and eventually we ended up doing it. later she said that she put too much weight on her virginity. i think the real question is if you prefer virgins or sluts, me - i prefer the sluts =)
but the virgins, you can train the right way, lol
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Old 09-18-2008, 02:33 AM   #18 (permalink)
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if you prefer virgins or sluts, me - i prefer the sluts =)
but the virgins, you can train the right way, lol
It's not an either/or

there is a whoooooooole in between of girls who like sex, and that doesn't make them sluts.
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Old 09-18-2008, 02:39 AM   #19 (permalink)
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Old 09-18-2008, 02:47 AM   #20 (permalink)
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I was 15

All the buildup for that?! It definitely got TONS better with time

Married her. Only one I've fucked. Pretty damn happy about being with her for life so unless somehow this becomes an open marriage, I'm pretty sure I'll die that way and I'm cool with either scenario.

If I had any advice to give it's just go with your gut and trust yourself. Know what you're getting into, what the risks are: not just STD and pregnancy but also possible heartbreak, maybe this guy turns out to be a dick, etc. If you can deal with all that and still wanna go for it, then have fun and be safe.
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